Letter from the Rector

NEWS FROM THE PARISH CHURCH
New Beginnings

Writing for the first time, but for the last edition of Berrynarbor News seems strange and a little sad given I have only recently arrived [early June] and begun to get to know people in the village.

These have been most unusual times, not just in the past few days as I write, with the death of our dear Queen Elizabeth II and the national mourning we have been going through, as well as how that has worked out locally. They have been unusual for all of us and indeed our Parish Church as well, as we adapt to the 'new normal' some months on after the worst waves of Covid-19 have passed.

However, as I am beginning to find my feet and building relationship with our congregations at Berrynarbor, as well as Combe Martin and Pip & Jim's, Ilfracombe, we are beginning to find that new shoots of life are emerging everywhere. For the Parish Church we are thrilled that we have reconnected with Berrynarbor Primary School and my wife, Rev'd. Tandy Ruoff [who has started as a Chaplain at West Buckland School] and I will be taking Assemblies at the church every Thursday morning at 9.30 a.m. I am delighted to say that we shall also be offering parents, grandparents, carers and everyone connected with the school community, a cup of tea, coffee and a pastry from 9.00 to 9.25 a.m. before we begin the Assembly. We hope to be able to get to know many of you in that time and you will be welcome to stay on and participate in the Assembly.

Our Sunday Services have now moved from 11.00 a.m. to 9.30 a.m., which I hope gives you the advantage of having more time on Sundays to go out and get on with other things afterwards. You will receive a warm welcome and a coffee and biscuit following the service. Every other week is a Service of Holy Communion with a Village/Parish Service in between.

As a heads up, please join us for the Harvest Festival Service on Sunday 2nd and the Harvest Festival Supper on Tuesday 4th October at the Manor Hall from 6.00 to 9.00 p.m.

I look forward to meeting many of you in the coming weeks.

Rev'd. Mark Ruoff

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They say a watched pot never boils. I certainly find that a kettle takes longer to boil when you're already running late for a meeting- or at least it seems to!

This seems to ring true as we wait for the 21st June. The want to come to the end of restrictions is palpable. It feels a bit like being a child waiting for Christmas. As annoying as having to wear masks and keep distance has been, for most of us I think we have accepted them as a necessary part of our care for our neighbours at this time.

For me though, there are two things that I have found most difficult: The first, having to think every action through in detail to make sure it complies with all the rules and keep others safe. It's extremely tiring to have to do everything consciously. And secondly, having to call or zoom friends and family rather than meeting in person. So, I look forward to the 21st June and seeing these things ease, even if that date seems to never come.

Yet, and I hate to sound like a pessimist here, none of us know what the 21st June will bring. It may be the end of lockdown, or it may not, or it may simply be a brief respite before the next pandemic. I say this not to take away hope, but rather to remind us where true hope is to be found. True hope, certain hope, and living hope can only be found in the one who is the Way, the Truth and the Life - that is Jesus.

As Hebrews 10:23 says:

"Let us hold tightly without wavering to the hope we affirm,
for God can be trusted to keep his promise."

And so, I look forward to the day when restrictions end and I can meet my friends indoors without mask or worries, visit my family members overnight, go outside without double-checking the regulations and that I have a mask. But my true hope lies not in these things, but rather in the God revealed in Jesus Christ - a true, certain and living hope for all that put their trust in Him.

Finally, I wish to end with a personal comment which, although not intended, I suppose fits well with the theme. This will be my last contribution to this Newsletter as your Vicar, as from 1st June my position at the church here will end. It is likely that you will still come across me as we aren't going far; my family and I shall soon be living and working in Combe Martin. It has been my joy to be able to share life with you all - the highs and the lows - and hope that I will be able to do so in the future, though in a different capacity. I have lots of wonderful memories, even over this relatively short time, that I will treasure, and have felt welcomed by you all. However, despite me moving on from this role, please remember that the church is still very much here for you, as it has been over all the years, to share with you the good news of Jesus, the hope that he brings, and to share life with you all. Vicars come and go, but God is eternally present. God willing it won't be too long until you'll be welcoming a new vicar into the village. In the meantime, I know the congregation will keep things running so that you can join them in worship every Sunday. If you do see me around, please don't hesitate to come and say 'Hi', and let me know how things are with you. And who knows? Perhaps there'll be another contribution from me one day but for now this is me signing off:

Have a wonderful summer and see you soon.

May you all know Christ Jesus; the way, the truth and the life.

Rev. Peter

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Happy Easter from St. Peter's Berrynarbor

Easter is the season of Good News! It is the season where we celebrate the death and resurrection of our Lord Jesus. Celebrating a death can seem like an odd thing to do on the face of it but Jesus's death was no ordinary one. It was a death that defeated evil, that stared death and sin in the face and beat it at its own game. It is the death that has saved and given hope to all who have a lived faith in Jesus, a claim that billions across the world believe and celebrate. If you are one of these then you already know the impassable joy that this brings, and if you're not, don't let another Easter pass you by without taking a genuine look at the life changing truth.

There are many resources to help you explore but I suggest 2 places to start.

1. Read The Gospel According to Mark, from the Bible. If you don't have a copy you can access it for free on the internet [biblegateway.com].
2. The Case for Christ by Lee Strobel. Lee was an investigative journalist who tried to disprove Christianity and in doing so realised it was true. Join Lee as he looks at some of the evidence for the historical death and resurrection of Jesus.

In light of this I am also pleased to say that Church services are now back in person, every Sunday at 3.00 p.m. Although the same limitations are still in place as were before, it means that we can be together as we celebrate the seminal moment in history that brings the greatest gift and joy for us today! I hope you can join us.

As always, for the latest information, please check our Facebook page or website: combetocombechurches.co.uk

This Easter, may you know the truth and peace that only comes through faith in our Lord Jesus.

Rev. Peter

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Happy [belated] New Year from St. Peter's, Berrynarbor

Not the start of the year any of us were hoping for, but, perhaps, at least partially expecting. We pray that you and yours are keeping safe, and that you are finding ways to thrive despite the current climate.

It was an odd end to 2020, but I am thankful to Stuart Neale and the Choir for their wonderful performance and for leading us in carols at the Christmas Eve Communion. Odd as it was to not sing along, it was wonderful to be able to hear those wonderful words remind us of the amazing story of Jesus, God with us, coming to live among us and give us hope.

As for 2021, at St. Peter's we have decided that given the current infection rate, the lockdown, and the vulnerability of many in the congregation and the village, the only reasonable course of action is to close the building to physical services. Don't worry though! The church is alive and well. Our Sunday services are now online on our website on Sunday from 10.00 a.m.

www.combetocombechurches.co.uk

There are lots of other services and events too, and you can read about them all in the latest parish letter available on the website as well. If you have an issue accessing the internet, we also have a telephone service on Sunday evenings at 7.30 p.m. You can 'phone me to get the details if you can't access the website: 07803253286.

Looking forward into the year, we have a glimmer of hope in the vaccines that are rolling out. We are grateful for the wise and well-educated people that are producing them. However, we are a long way off normality. The good news is that no matter what life throws at us, we can have a true and certain hope through the Lord Jesus Christ. I pray that, if you've not already, you will come and know this hope too.

God bless you all in 2021.

Rev. Peter

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Dear Friends,

It is hard to believe that we are already in December! Winter is upon us, or will be shortly depending on your preferred definition, but hopefully with it has come an ease in lockdown restrictions. Of course, I'm writing this in November so cannot be certain. This is good news as we look forward to Christmas, which although won't be as normal, will at least be with lighter restrictions. I wonder how you are preparing for Christmas this year? I imagine that you have an advent calendar on the go already. This year mine is teabags rather than chocolate! It is a wonderful way to count down to Christmas, and having something to look forward to is more important than ever, isn't it. For the church, advent started on the 29th November this year and with it came a new year [in the church calendar at least]. Advent is a season of preparation: Not only of our decorations and presents, but more importantly of ourselves. It is a good time to reflect on why we celebrate Christmas at all, and our own place in it.

Despite all the glitz and glamour that is associated with Christmas now [largely thanks to savvy Victorian salespeople], it has certainly not always been the case, especially with the first Christmas. The first Christmas was in the context of a woman being misunderstood and mistreated, a 'global' government putting restrictions upon the people, a local government bringing oppression and violence against those that threatened their power, of families being separated, of the most vulnerable being side-lined and forgotten. I'm sure that at least some of that feels a bit too close for comfort this year. However, that is why Christmas is more important than we normally give it credit for. It is the story of light in the darkness and hope in despair. It is the story of God with us - Emmanuel. Take time this year to look at Christmas with fresh eyes. You may want to read the story for yourself in the bible or perhaps read this short book over advent: Fixated by Tim Chester. Of course, I'd love to help you explore this world changing message.

As we approach Christmas this year it is unfortunate that many of the usual events that you may be used to attending are unable to happen. There certainly will be events happening but at time of writing we're not sure the form they will take as it depends a lot on what happens on the 2nd December. Please do keep an eye-out for posters at the church as well as information online to keep informed about what will be happening.

In the meantime, I have some good news. Once lockdown has ended, we shall be resuming physical services. These will now be at 3.00 p.m. on Sunday afternoons. Until then we shall be continuing our online services at 10:30 a.m. every Sunday morning, which you can catch up on anytime. Simple, go to: www.combetocombechurches.co.uk

There is also our evening service at 7.30 p.m. every Sunday via the 'phone. If you'd like to join in, just be in touch and I'll pass on the details to you. For more information on these service as well as much more please see my latest letter on our website.

Some other great news is that there is now a Community Mental Health Practitioner working with St. Peter's. Her name is Lisa and is here to serve the community. I won't say too much here as she has introduced herself in her letter below, but please do be in touch. I expect that lockdown has made all of us realise the importance of looking after our mental health. Lisa would love to help you do that.

Finally, may I wish you all a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year. God bless,

Rev. Peter
revchurcher@gmail.com / 07803253286

"Glory to God in the highest heaven,
and on earth peace to those on whom his favour rests."
Luke 2:14

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Dear friends at Berrynarbor,

I hope you are all keeping well. Since the last letter little has changed.

As I write to you, gatherings have been reduced from 30 to 6 to help lower the R number. Time will tell, but I hope that this is successful so that we can come out of these restrictions safely as soon as possible.

As you read this, the church is hoping to be able to hold, before too long, its APCM. In case you're not sure what that is, it is our annual meeting to review the past year and look forward to the next. Who knows what that might bring? It is an important part of our reflecting and looking forward. Talking of looking forward, we are hoping to resume services as soon as possible and will obviously let you know as soon as we can.

In some way I feel October is a bit on a non-month. It's officially Autumn now, whether the weather agrees or not, where little new or different happens. However, that is in itself a novel and delightful thing. It gives us time to slow down. As the world turns from the green of abundance to the autumnal colours of restraint, it encourages us to slow down too.

Life can be so busy we fail to stop and reflect. Make sure you take time to slow down too. To think about what you are doing and why. To remember and give thanks for the good things in your life and to think about what change is needed. And in all these things, to remember that God is king, and has called us to live as such. For only then can we know true rest and true peace.

God bless.

Rev. Peter & all at St. Peters

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To everyone in Berrynarbor

I hope that you are keeping safe in these strange times. Even if you are physically healthy, I think many people are feeling a bit fatigued by it all now - me included.There's only so long we can keep up the feeling of innovation or so many hobbies one can take up! I find that I have to often remind myself at this time that this is not forever, that it is ok to find things stressful, and to feel out of control. It's important at this time to be reminded that, although we may feel out of control, God is in control. Part of the good news of Jesus [the gospel] is that He is good and holds our future.

One thing that people have been asking for is to be able to access our church building. Unfortunately, St. Peter's Berrynarbor is unable to open its doors safely at this time, but I am pleased to say that our sister churches are now open for private prayer:

• St. Peter Ad Vincula, Combe Martin: Sundays 2.00 - 4.00 p.m. Thursdays 10.00 a.m. - 12.00 noon
• Pip and Jim's, Ilfracombe, Saturdays 9.00 a.m. to 12.00 noon Tuesdays 1.00 to 4.00 p.m.

Please be aware that as government advice changes, and as circumstances arise, we may need to edit these times.

When you enter the church buildings you will notice a few differences. As you enter please clean your hands with the alcohol gel provided, follow the arrows to a seat - marked 2 metres apart - where you can sit and pray, and once you are ready to leave, please follow the arrows to the exit and use the alcohol gel by the exit, this is a different door to the one you entered.When you come to pray, you may like to bring your own Bible and/or prayer resources too. At the entrance you will find QR codes linking to helpful resources, or you can access them via these website addresses:

• Prayers: www.churchofengland.org/prayers-for-the-moment
• Light a virtual candle: www.churchofengland.org/light-a-candle
• Read the Bible: www.biblegateway.com

I also want to clarify that private prayer is the only reason the church building can be used at this time. All church services are still online or by telephone only, and tourist visits are not currently allowed. However, this is under discussion and we will let you know once we are able to meet in person again.

www.combetocombechurches.co.uk

I'd also like to invite you to join us for our services online. A video goes live on our website each Sunday at 10:30 a.m. [but can be watched at any time], along with a chat-box to join in with others watching and sharing at the same time. It's a great way to dip your toe in and experience a little of church. Why not take time to explore what goes on.

To end, I'd just like to give my thanks to everyone taking part in the amazing work going on in the village.This attitude of care is nothing new in the village of course, but speaks volumes at this time.

May you know the peace of God at this time especially.

Rev. Peter, and all at St. Peter's Combe Martin
revchurcher@gmail.com / 07803253286

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Dear Friends,

I hope that you are keeping well at this time, and know the blessings of God through all your circumstances. Hopefully by now you know what is happening at St. Peter's Berrynarbor and the other linked churches. Unless things have change drastically since writing this, we are still unable to meet in person, and so I wanted to share what we are doing as a benefice to keep us all connected, and to help everyone in their walk with Jesus.

The best place to go for up-to-date information, or for links to online services and Zoom links for meetings, is our benefice website which is where I place most information:

www.combetocombechurches.co.uk

If this isn't an option for you then you can always ring one of the me and I will happily talk you through what is going on.

It is extremely important that although we are socially distant, that we are also distant socialising. i.e. We must stay physically apart for the health of ourselves and our communities, but also that we stay connected with each other so that no-one is truly isolated.

Thank you for everyone that is making an effort of keep in contact with others via phone calls, post cards and other means. We got off to a good start but let's keep this going. [One word of warning though: please don't put things through people's doors by hand as this is an infection risk since Covid19 can live on paper for up to 24 hrs.] If you are feeling isolated please reach out to someone in the church - you never know; they may love a call too!

Until we are able to meet again, we shall be continuing to:

• put Service Videos on Sunday mornings on our website [see above]. They premiere at 10:30 a.m. with a
• chat box for you to engage with, but you can watch at any time.
• have Virtual Coffee Mornings via Zoom on Mondays, from 10.00 to 11.00 a.m.[details online]
• have Virtual Home Group via zoom on Wednesdays, 7.30 - 9.00 p.m. [details online].

We have also introduced a new service, since our last letter:

• Telephone Compline. Sunday, 7.25 for a 7.30 p.m. start, for about 15 minutes.

Simply call 0333 011 0616 on any phone. You'll then enter the access code: 998 3503, and say your name [if you want to] followed by #. [Local rate call charges may apply] Everyone is welcome to join, but if you'd like to join in the responses in this service, you will need the service sheet. You can find this on our website, or by contacting me.

We have also produced a service sheet for Sunday worship. This is intended to be used for those who are unable to join in the video services each Sunday with people in their household or alone, so that, although we might not be together physically, we are one in Christ Jesus. Also available are the bible readings [lectionary] from each Sunday until the end of July so you can read the same passages that we shall be using on the videos.

It might be that you are reading this as someone who doesn't go to a church, or perhaps hasn't been for a while. This is a great opportunity to see what we do, and perhaps try joining in, as you can do so anonymously from the comfort of your own home. Of course, if you want to make yourself known we'd love to greet you as well - it's up to you.

I'd also like to take this opportunity to thank those who are going above and beyond to ensure our community is cared for. I'd particularly like to name and fame 3 groups: 1. The school staff, who have continued their care, to educate and love the children despite the difficulties 2. The Village Shop and all who volunteer there, ensuring that no-one goes without, and 3. Ye Olde Globe Inn, who despite their own difficulties at this time, have served their community valiantly. Although you may not put it this way, I should like to thank you for living out some of the values of God's Kingdom in our little community.

I for one look forward to being back in the village and being with you all as soon as it is safe and possible.

Yours in Christ,

Rev. Peter
revchurcher@gmail.com / 07803253286

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I wonder what was the last piece of good news you received. Perhaps the birth of your child or grandchild? A promotion at work? Someone said they love you? Or perhaps simply that the supermarket has now got hand sanitizer and loo rolls back in stock! We all love getting good news, whether that be something that affects us personally, or just somebody we care for.

Easter is the season of good news. Perhaps you've heard Christians talk about the Gospel - it's an old English term that simply means Good News. It is the heart of the Christian faith, and is what we celebrate at Easter.

On the face of it we celebrate the death of Jesus - Good Friday - and His subsequent rising from the dead - Easter Sunday - which of course is true, but it is more than a clever trick or just a fact of history. Easter is good news because it is the evidence and means by which God declares that each of us are precious to Him, that the sin that separates us from Him has been forgiven, and that death - the final enemy - has been defeated.

Easter is the great celebration that for those that belong to Jesus - those that follow Him - that we are no longer marked by our mistakes, our poor choices, or our thoughtlessness, but instead we are marked by the forgiveness of Jesus, and given a fresh start in His Kingdom. Jesus' resurrection proves that even death cannot separate us from the love of God. There is no better news in all the world.

Join us at St. Peter's, Berrynarbor at 2.00 p.m. on Good Friday, 10th, for a service of readings and music to help us reflect on the death of Jesus. And then again on Easter Sunday,12th at 11.00 a.m. as we celebrate Jesus' resurrection, and victory over sin and death.

May you know God's immeasurable joy.

Rev. Peter Churcher

VICAR'S VIEWS FEBRUARY 2020

February brings lots of choices! For many, January meant a diet following the excesses of Christmas, or Dry January to give your liver a rest, or Veganuary in an attempt to atone for the farmyard you consumed in December. So now we are February, I wonder what choices you will make now? Will you continue your reform, relax to something more balanced, or return to your old habits?

February also brings with it another day of excess: Shrove Tuesday, or, as it is better known, Pancake day. It is the day before Ash Wednesday, the first day in Lent [which makes it Tuesday 25th February this year]. It is an old tradition of using up all your rich foods, such as sugar, eggs, butter and syrup so you aren't tempted to indulge during lent. And also, I know there is an argument every year but the correct answer is 'Lemon and Sugar'. Nowadays lent has become a largely passed-over season, or at best the time when people give up chocolate to raise money for charity, or give up social media in an attempt to get control over it before it controls you. However, lent is so much more important than that.

Lent is the season where we prepare ourselves for Easter. The word 'Lent' comes from the old word for spring. Much like the season, lent is meant to help life 'spring' forth from us. Easter is a time where we celebrate the defeat of death by our Lord Jesus, and where we see true, full life burst from the empty tomb. The wonderful joy is that Jesus offers us that life too. So lent is not about self-flagellation [google if you must] but about preparing ourselves to have the new-life planted in us, as a farmer prepares the ground for the seed. The giving up of foods or screens is not to beat ourselves up, but rather to help us see that what Jesus has for us is far richer and far sweeter than any pancake or a million 'like's on Facebook could ever be.

Jesus said,

'I have come that they may have life in all its abundance'
[John 10:10]

Why not take a fresh look at Jesus this year? There are plenty of services at St. Peter's over lent, Easter and throughout the year that you'd be warmly welcomed to. Can't wait? Then this website is a good place to start your journey: twowaystolive.com

As always, feel free to be in contact.

May God bless you richly this 2020.

Rev. Peter Churcher

FROM REV. BILL

Dear Friends

The run up to Christmas is very hectic; it's amazing just how much hustle and bustle there is before The Big Day. This year is particularly hectic for me and my wife as we say goodbye to North Devon and move to our home in Cumbria at the beginning of December, as you can imagine we will have a lot to think about.

Almost everyone gets caught up in the busyness and material stuff of a commercialised Christmas: shopping till we drop, giving children as many presents as the house can hold, and buying enough food to keep a whole street alive for a week! It seems ironic then that the very first Christmas Day welcomed the birth of the Prince of Peace, and it is on Christmas Day, when many of us are so tired all we want is to be left in peace and sleep it off!

The lead up to Christmas doesn't need to be so hectic, though no-one needs to dread it, because ultimately if we choose, Christmas can really be a time of joy and peace. Christmas will always be Christmas. After all we are celebrating the most significant event in history; if you can think of a more significant one, let us know. The birth of Jesus brought not only a new way of life to the world, one that continues to stand the test of time, but also brought God into the world that he made.

And on that first Christmas Day in the tiny village of Bethlehem, the world was amazed at the sight of a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger, and just for a moment the world and heaven were joined as one as: "Suddenly a great company of the heavenly host appeared...praising God and saying, 'Glory to God in the highest, and on earth peace to those on whom his favour rests.'" (Luke 2:13,14)

Have a very happy and peaceful Christmas, and may God's favour rest on you.

Bill Cole

We thank Bill for his contributions to the Newsletter and wish him and his wife a joyous and peaceful Christmas and health and happiness in their home in Cumbria.

Merry Christmas for St. Peter's

You are very welcome to all of our services, many of which have mince pies and mulled wine too! Look out for posters or pop into the church for more information.

If you're not sure of the reason why we celebrate Christmas, here is a good tip: There are 24 days in December before Christmas, and 24 Chapters in Luke's version of the Jesus story in the Bible. Why not read just one chapter a day? Once you get to Christmas, you'll know what you're celebrating!

May you know the reason for the season and the joy He can bring. 

Rev. Peter Churcher

Dear Friends,

Following a summer of many long, bright, sunny days, the days are definitely shorter, and the nights longer. Autumn is well and truly underway and some of us may not be looking forward to the dark cold winter nights ahead. Fortunately, there are highlights along the way such as Bonfire Night, Christmas Lights, Advent and Christmas. Imagine winter without those events, the winter months would be darker.

One person that turns darkness into light is Jesus, who said, "I am the Light of the World", which is a very strange thing for Jesus to say if you really think about it. What does he mean? It's not so much that Jesus magically changes everything or everybody, but it does mean that he is the beacon of all that is true and all that is right, and by keeping our eyes on him as he lights our way, we will be transformed, as more light fills our lives.

Jesus also said that he came so that "we could have life to the full." A promise of a life knowing that God loves you, a life of joy and contentment, a life of doing all kinds of good things, a life that can cope with the hard times, a life of inner freedom, a life that knows why you were born, a life that answers those difficult questions that have never been answered: a full life!

Bill

FROM REV. BILL

Once again, the months go by. The blossoms have fallen by now but very little changes with regard to parliament and our country. If it's not MP's expenses its Brexit!

Brexit has become divisive, political parties are divided even amongst themselves, and the country is divided. It wasn't that long ago when parliament was in the news over affluent members fiddling their expenses. Certainly, our MPs get a lot of flak from all sides. But how many people in other walks of life are doing, or would do the same thing: perhaps thinking that fiddling the company isn't as serious as fiddling the voter?

Jesus once told a woman caught in adultery that her sins were forgiven, but added go and sin no more. You may be wondering what adultery and fiddling expenses have in common; they are similar in this way: they are both stealing something that is not rightfully theirs. Is adultery and fiddling expenses becoming more acceptable in our society?

When people choose to become politicians or members of parliament, they have a responsibility to those who elect them, they are placed in positions of trust and are given the title Honourable and promise to be so. In the same way men and women promise to honour their spouses, they too are placed in positions of trust and have a responsibility to one another.

If responsibility is not accepted and acted upon, trust goes out of the window. It seems to me that our political classes often go too far and many of them fail to understand what is right, but then are they the only ones?

If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and there is no truth in us. But if we confess our sins to God, he will keep his promise and do what is right: he will forgive us our sins.

God loves you and even our politicians!

Bill

How many of you would like to cancel Christmas? Be honest, because it's just too expensive. But that isn't what Christmas is really about: Jesus was born to free us and not cost us.

For many parents, Christmas 2018, rather than being a time of goodwill and peace, will become a financial nightmare: the expensive gifts of recent past Christmas's are just a dream, foodbanks are the reality for some! But if we cancel Christmas altogether, we should miss the point. No, don't cancel Christmas, instead celebrate a true Christmas!

Expensive gifts are fine for a little while, but eventually they become outdated, break down, or we simply tire of them. In reality nothing apart from God, lasts forever.

My parents told me stories of their Christmas's when they were young. They each had a stocking with an orange and a bag of nuts. Not much to us, but to them, that orange and those nuts represented something special, something they only tasted once a year at Christmas. So, try to imagine the excitement for a child then. It seems today we want our children to be constantly excited and so we spend more and more money.

Over 2000 years ago, a few people were excitedly waiting for a very special gift: the child Jesus to be born. His birth was very ordinary really, but imagine being there, metaphorically with your nose pressed against the window, and able to see the new-born baby Jesus. Do you still get excited about his birth?

I expect people of all ages enjoy the story, why not relive it this year? It's free, be free, be different and come and see for yourself. It may be life changing!

A very happy Christmas to everyone.

AND IT'S GOODBYE FROM ME
BUT NOT GOODBYE FROM HIM!

Dear Friends,

Can it really be 'that time of year again?!

There were always going to be problems with combining the winter festival with the Christian celebration of the birth of Jesus. The latter gets lost in the former even as the shop tills ring out a happy seasonal cheer.

It's not being grumpy or churlish to regret this, to feel that something important slips away. I enjoy the food and cheer as much as anyone. I won't be decorating my house much, if at all, as I am making tracks after Christmas but I hope you have known me enough over these four years to know that I am no Ebenezer Scrooge. May the turkey roast well, let the wine flow, good times roll and I hope you have a lovely time with family and friends!

You would expect me to say this so I will! Let this Christmas be a time when you give serious thought to the bigger issues of life and death which are always there in the background. People are lonely; people are sad. The grieving have their memories and the homeless or those battling with health conditions or financial strain will wish it all goes away quickly. Yet we are being entertained to death in our culture and for lack of serious thought, people go hungry in a rather different way. We are hungry inside. We are hungry for a larger purpose, for forgiveness and reconciliation, for peace deep down and most of all, for love. How we want someone to come to us and take our side, to comfort and to heal.

That is of course at the heart of what we shall be proclaiming this Christmas through word and song. Someone has come to take our part and stand in solidarity with the human situation. The evidence for this is surprisingly robust and maybe you should revisit it, especially if mental culture or life training has predisposed you to take the good news about Jesus with a very large pinch of salt!

But good news it is. I have experienced it and pray that any lasting legacy of my brief time amongst you will lead you to consider what it might mean to acknowledge God and learn to receive the Christ of Bethlehem, not now into a stable, but into whatever life setting you present to God.

Do come and join us for our village carol service on 17th December. Children from the village school will be singing that evening from 5.50 p.m. to welcome you all in to church. There will be mince pies and mulled wine to follow.

I shall depart with very fond memories of Berrynarbor and its tribes. 'Tis a great village of which to be a part. So it is goodbye from me. But, with apologies to the two Ronnies, it is not goodbye from Him!

With every good wish,

Rev. Chris

FROM THE RECTOR . . .

Hi everyone,

Warm congratulations to Stuart Neale and the group who put together a stunning exhibition to remember the First World War on 2nd August. I was blown away by the size and scale of it! Very well done also to the school children who constructed a replica of the War Memorial; so lifelike that someone thought it was the real thing and it won First Prize at the Horticultural and Craft Show. Excellent!

I was sorry not to have been in the village the night of August 4th. Candles in many houses evocatively remembered the British Declaration of war against Germany a hundred years ago.

That evening found me at Mons, the scene of the first encounter between British troops and German forces that then forced a retreat. Our party saw the canal bridge where the first Victoria Crosses of the war were awarded. We were unable to get into the well-known cemetery of St Symphorien just outside the town as there was to be a major event that evening - televised nationally. We did look up, however, in Mons itself and suddenly there were Prince William and Kate on the balcony! Along with Prince Harry, they were making an appearance before the main event later. At Ypres on another occasion, we saw Gareth Malone, whose daughter, I believe, took part in a group of school children singing for the occasion. The Menin Gate is of course where British troops marched through on their way to battle. To see the various memorials round Ypres itself is hugely evocative. At Tynecot cemetery, the graves stretch far into the distance. On the wall of memorial, the first name was the son of the Vicar of Combe Martin at that time. Captain Pine died in battle in 1915.

I fully realise that the First World War is a hugely complex historical event. Our remembrance is often dominated by cliche of young British soldiers, many of them budding poets, led to early and ghastly deaths in muddy wastes by incompetent generals for reasons that were seemingly futile. Certainly, the reality is far more nuanced and complex that such cliche suggests. It is only part of the truth. Nevertheless, the visit left me angry, which is unlike me; angry at tactics and a waste of lives.

"I need you to lay down your life Perkins", runs the strapline for a current radio series. "We need a totally futile gesture at this time!" As a Christian, I believe that the sacrifice of Jesus was not a futile gesture; that it was for a reason. The good news that is offered to us through the events of that first Good Friday and Easter Sunday are for real and can be life-transforming.

Alas, the time has come for me personally to take that message elsewhere. As the great age of 60 beckons for me and in the wake of a re-organisation of North Devon churches, I shall be moving on to pastures new [to invoke another old cliche!]. I have been offered and accepted,

the role of Team Rector of Totton, on the edge of the New Forest. It has 45,000 people, so it is a big challenge for my last lap in ministry and working life but the bonus is that it is near our grandkids in Bournemouth.

Plenty of time to say goodbyes as it does not happen until after Christmas! But I shall miss North Devon greatly and the many friends I have made here as well as the parishioners - great characters all!

With best wishes,

Rev. Chris

FROM THE RECTOR . . .

Disputed memory

I am very much looking forward to the weekend of commemoration of the First World War at the Manor Hall on 2nd and 3rd August.

The shadow of this terrible war is lengthening now, yet no doubt many of us have family and folk memories. My Grandpa saw his tenth birthday the day war was declared and showed me some of the headlines of the period. Were members of your family involved directly or knew those who were? Maybe some of your memorabilia will be in evidence at our village commemoration.

 
Illustration by: Paul Swailes

Monday 4th August will see me in Belgium at the Menin Gate for the daily ceremony at 8.00 p.m. when the Last Post is sounded. Many will be remembering the exact time our country entered the war by holding a candlelit vigil between 10.00 and 11.00 in the evening.

I used to teach history and am well aware of the difficulty of the task of remembering. Memory and meaning are entwined together; what events meant to different people then and now results in memory. becoming contested.

For example, in present day Serbia, Gavrilo Princep, the young 19 year old student who shot the heir to the Austro-Hungarian Empire, is hailed as a freedom fighter. Yet those shots rang round the world and set in motion the chain of events that led to a general European and then a global catastrophe.

Remembering becomes very tricky. Although subscribing a bit less than I once did to 'Lions led by donkeys', the waste of lives and the appalling tactics of sending men up against the lethal fire power of machine guns has haunted generations since. Was the War really necessary? Should we not have stayed out and left the European powers to get on with it? Why were no statesmen prepared to stand back and prevent the descent into barbarity and the implosion of civilisation? These are questions that are being hotly debated and I expect many of us will have a view.

Remembering any major event that sears itself into memory is difficult territory. Memory of the past is all wrapped up with people's identities. One far off night, another figure from history sat with his followers. It was late that evening too. "Remember me like this." said Jesus. "Remember me like this"!

With every good wish,

Rev Chris

FROM THE RECTOR . . .

Well, so now June is bustin' out all over! I trust your gardens are blooming but it's not going to happen without some cultivation having gone on. Relationships are like that. To ensure that they are blossoming and at the end of our lives there is a scented garden of remembrance, think what we need to do to cultivate relationships with those close to us. Time spent with friends and family is, of course, vital. Although true friendship contains that awesome capacity to pick up where you last left off, it is vital to build in some element of re-union and celebration to keep things alive and well.

Amongst the special flowers that need to be cultivated to keep close relationships healthy is the gift of forgiveness.

A minister with failing eyesight glanced at the note Mrs Jones had sent him. The note read: 'Bill Jones, having gone to sea, his wife desires the prayers of the congregation for his safety.'

Failing to observe the punctuation, he startled his audience by announcing: 'Bill Jones, having gone to see his wife, desires the prayers of the congregation for his safety.'

Or there was the wife who had just returned home at the end of the day and found her husband was starving. This is what she said: "I've been to karate class, so dinner will be late. Want to make something of it?"! Ah yes . . . conflict!! They say a good marriage is the union of two forgivers.

For want of forgiveness, instead of being healing and soothing places, relationships are war zones where destructive forces rage violently. Anyone who proposes to embark on a close relationship of any sort needs to be aware of the forgiveness imperative. So many issues that cause friction would be resolved through forgiveness. It is a gift, being able to keep short accounts, clear away the past, not bring up past crimes or past times and so build up the wall of frustration. It is a practice, something you learn to do and be committed to keep it up. Forgiveness is a capacity that can cope with conflict and does not mean you can never talk things through in the interests of harmony. It is a gift that keeps the air clear and disarms the skills of unarmed verbal combat.

Best of all, there is the dramatic forgiveness God is prepared to impart to all those who apply through the cross of Christ. Said Paul Flowers, the disgraced Chairman of Co-Op, "I have sinned in the old-fashioned way!" It is hard to talk realistically about sin in contemporary society because fewer people acknowledge the target of the violation, God, just think, you cannot confess if there is no one to confess to.

For me, I am upfront about it. I have sinned in the old fashioned way. Once I was a wilting flower. Now I am a blooming Christian!

Church in June and July sees two weddings, the school leaver's service and our new venture, Messy Church - the craft activity for families being held at the school on the first Thursday in the month. Why not keep spiritually fit this summer and jog to church!

I truly wish you well as you cultivate the life that is busting all around us and at closer to home!

Rev. Chris

As I write these words, there are serious problems being reported in the NHS. I don't know what your experience is of accident and emergency, but A & E seems to be a barometer of the pressures on hospitals, especially in the winter. In addition, some hospital waiting times seem to have been falsified. Santa doesn't have that problem with his national elf service!

We have arrived once again at Advent. Great themes will start to play - darkness to light, conflict and peace, life and death, heaven and hell, time and eternity, judgement and healing! Nothing too serious then!

A problem this Christmas will be the squeeze on the cost of living. Families struggle with rising prices of food and especially energy. How on earth will we pay that electricity bill? One initiative that the church is getting involved with in Combe Martin this Christmas is a Food Bank. This will operate for the first two weeks of December and cardboard boxes will be around the village. Retailers and landlords are coming on board which is great! Please bring some non-perishable items and place in the boxes which will be emptied at regular intervals. Distribution will take place in the week leading up to Christmas, probably in the foyer of the town hall each morning. Families will be able to have between 3-5 items according to how much comes in. If more is needed, proof of being unemployed, etc. would be helpful. Look out for more details. This is for people in Berrynarbor as well, both to give and to receive.

Advent is about waiting, not just as children think. There are different forms of waiting. Waiting for Christmas is one thing but what about waiting for an operation? Or when you suffer from depression, perhaps you lie there waiting for morning and then wait for the end of the day. Advent is about waiting with hope, waiting with openness, looking to God with anticipation. I have had to sell the house at different times in my life; you have to be ready. Anyone can come anytime! Preferably by appointment, people can come to view. That is what it means to be open to God. You have to be ready, you have to live with anticipation, being prepared to open the door. This is the right attitude to make the most of the Christmas season. We get everything else ready but most of us will leave out the spiritual dimension and what that can mean to us if we are open. Fancy confusing that with tinsel!

It's sad. One of my favourite carols rarely heard or performed uses an old Andalusian tune which makes it as haunting and beautiful a melody as you can imagine. The 'Carol of the Birds' was a favourite of the 'cellist Pablo Casals, and Joan Baez sang it on a Christmas album some may remember. The second verse goes like this:

The eagle then did rise, went flying through the skies
To tell the wondrous story.
Sang: "Jesus born is he. From sin we are set free
He brings us joy and glory."

Rev. Chris

Can you remember the first joke you ever repeated? The very first joke I heard as a young lad on the school playground was this: 'Why do birds fly south for winter?' 'Because it's too far to walk!'

But have you heard the story of the birds that could not fly? They looked with longing at the clouds, the branches and the best fruits at the tops of the trees. If only these could be theirs. God heard their desire. One night, while all the birds were sleeping, he attached wings to their backs. When they awoke, the birds were furious that God had given them an unwanted burden which they would now have to carry about with them for the rest of their lives. How could God lay upon them more than they already had to bear?

But when one bird began to move its new wings, it was lifted aloft and given a freedom it never knew existed. The birds discovered their burden was a gift. Their wings became a way to a more abundant life. Similarly, in our lives, we can discover the gift God wants to give every one of us. In embracing that gift, we may experience freedom and wholeness like never before. It is the transforming power and love channelled to this world through the life, death and resurrection of Jesus. Similarly, as we journey through life, what appears like a burden initially may turn out to be the gift for which we've been looking and praying.

Something to think about as we look up and see the birds flying south! No, not because it's too far to walk but because it's that time of year again!

It's also harvest and you are warmly invited to come to the Church and School Family Service on 6th October at 11.00 a.m., as well as the Harvest Supper in the Manor Hall the following Wednesday, 9th October.

While we are on dates, parents please note that our new initiative, Messy Church, has resumed for the autumn and is on the second Saturday morning in the month at Combe Martin Village Hall. This is a family event starting with bacon baps at 9.30 a.m. followed by an hour of fun craft activity.

Lastly, I hope to get an Alpha or equivalent course going once again this autumn to provide opportunity to discuss matters of faith and spirituality in an informal setting. Do let me know if you would like to do this.

Best wishes,

[Rev. Chris

July is bursting out all over . . . So this is what we have been waiting for!

I think they used to call it summer but I have forgotten since I moved here three 'summers'' ago! But as I write, July is well and truly blooming. The roses are gorgeous, hydrangea a few weeks behind but promising and the fruit is looking good. Shorts and sandals beckon and we have an end to the occasional unseasonal log fire in the late evening. All worth a wait when it comes!

And what about the great victory of Andy Murray - yesterday at the time of writing! Worth a wait after a three hour marathon in baking temperatures and 77 years since Fred Perry's Wimbledon triumph?

What is it about waiting anyway? 'All good things come to those who wait' was my late father's advice. Or was it a platitude when I wanted my favourite dinner, a special outing or that present? He was trying to tell me that you cannot always have what you want. Indeed, that there is much pleasure in preparing and planning.

For Christians, waiting is built into the scheme of things. Advent and Lent bear witness to that. The coming of Christ into the world and into our lives follows a time of waiting and preparation. The Lord comes into a receptive heart that, like the lovely flowers around us now, have opened before the Son/sun. But waiting is not passive, should be active, a time filled with readiness and development. Patient preparation and often slow process is part of the deal. Ask any good cook!

Speaking of which, it would be nice to think that we could have a bar-b-cue summer for a while. I will sniff as I go round on my pastoral visits!

Best wishes,

Rev Chris

LETTER FROM THE RECTOR

Dear Friends,

As I write, the season of Epiphany has just got under way in the church's calendar. As you will be aware, it marks the idea of 'showing', the 'showing' of Jesus Christ to the people of Israel at his baptism and his 'showing' to the world, initially through the witnesses guided to pay homage to the infant Christ. Often, this has inspired Christian people to go beyond ethnic and geographical barriers to serve God outside their home culture. This year, I found my thoughts going in a different direction; not about going out to the world but about the way the world has come to us!

We can be proud of the way that Britain has always been a place for the displaced: somewhere the refugee, the homeless or the asylum seeker might come; somewhere the homeless wanderer or the poor searching for a better life might find welcome and a home. In the Old Testament, the people were expressly told, "when an alien resides with you, you shall not oppress the alien . . . you shall not oppress the alien; you shall love the alien as yourself" (Leviticus 19v33-34).

Most of us are products of immigration. I have both Spanish and Dutch blood in me going way back. The population generally accept the comings or goings of people and that Britain is a richer, more diverse and tolerant society as a result. But there are often rumblings about immigration which will be a political battleground in the year ahead. So it does behove us to think about our attitudes to the stranger in our midst (not that we get too many strangers in North Devon apart from 'incomers' like me!).

We wish Dr Rowan Williams well as he has by now taken up his new post as Warden of Magdalene College Cambridge and Justin Welby as he is enthroned next month as the new Archbishop of Canterbury.

Rowan Williams will be a hard act to follow. His intellectual stature is immense. In his last Thought for the Day on Radio 4, he commented on the recent shootings in America:

"If all you have is a gun, everything looks like a target. But if all you have is the child's openness and willingness to be loved, everything looks like a promise."

They don't tell it better than that!

Hoping many of you will consider coming back to church regularly or join in one of our Alpha discussion groups,

Best wishes to you all,

Rev Chris

... from our Rector

ROOTED!

As I write, I have been doing some garden clearance over the weekend. Nothing too strenuous or heroic but enough to take advantage of the green bin moment in North Devon! My goodness, aren't some of those bushes and weeds deeply rooted? Nettles in particular seem to be everywhere. The rain hasn't helped that aspect of life; the heart-warming greeting of everything lush, green and profuse means it's all spread! Some of those roots have got well stuck in....

If we need any reminder, the Bible shows us how much we are firmly rooted in this world. The ancient texts of the Hebrew Scriptures depict human life as being cradled amidst a creative sphere exploding with diversity and wonder. What we used to call mankind (whoops- not anymore!) is firmly rooted amidst a stellar canopy. Indeed, it is even said that God stretched out the heavens in a phrase that echoes the incredible idea of an expanding universe! The Roman orator Cicero observed that God did not make us on all fours like a dog to be focussed on what is below us and around us but on two legs so we could look up and wonder. It doesn't end there, of course, and we are also firmly rooted in land and a place that is shaped by huge physical forces (we call geology and meteorology). Lastly, we are placed in a setting that includes the enormous array of life forms we see around us and our relationship to the earth. In a course on science and faith that has just finished, that explores if there is contradiction between them, we have been looking into our place in the creation. Courtesy of Google and the National Geographical Magazine, some stunning images have accompanied this exploration. All this raises big questions about the fragility of nature, environmental degradation and how we protect and preserve natural resources against the need to feed and house growing populations. It also raises far-reaching questions about who we are and whether we are just animals or is there something in our nature that sets us apart?

Sorry if you missed that but you may like to know of another course that is taking place in September that may be less taxing but will stretch your spirit rather than boggle your mind. 'Start' is a six-session discussion and DVD course designed to help people think through where they are going in their lives, what does it mean to have a faith and is there anything in it anyway?! The sessions are free and cover such issues as: Life is for living. Oh my God! Jesus who? What's gone wrong? Dying to save us. Into the arms of love

With kind permission, the discussion course will take place at The Globe on a Monday night in the family room. 'Start' starts on 3rd September for 6 Mondays except Monday 17th September. Hope to see you there. If possible, please let me know if you can come or just turn up!

With every good wish,

Rev Chris (Rector)

FROM THE RECTOR

Dear Friends

On Sunday 3rd June - the special Service of Thanksgiving to mark the Queen's Diamond Jubilee, 9.30 a.m. at Combe Martin [without the usual Communion] and 11.00 a.m. at Berrynarbor. Musical items and involvement from school children will take place.

Amongst prayers children will be praying is this prayer:

O God our Father, you love all your children in this and every nation: we give you thanks for Elizabeth our Queen at this time of Jubilee; give her your strength and protection, your love and your peace, that she may joyfully serve you and her people all the days of her life; we ask this through Jesus Christ, our Lord and our Friend. Amen

The Queen is one of the most impressive religious leaders in Britain. She says little in public about her Christianity, but what she does say - usually at the end of her Christmas Day broadcast - is powerful in its directness. Having discussed the celebrations, tragedies and anxieties of the past year, the Queen affirms, naturally but unflinchingly and with no attempt at religious relativism, her faith in Jesus Christ. This is from her message last Christmas Day:

"Finding hope in adversity is one of the themes of Christmas. Jesus was born into a world full of fear. The angels came to frightened shepherds with hope in their voices: 'Fear not', they urged, 'We bring you tidings of great joy, which shall be to all people. For unto you is born this day in the City of David a Saviour who is Christ the Lord.' Although we are capable of great acts of kindness, history teaches us that we sometimes need saving from ourselves - from our recklessness or our greed.

"God sent into the world a unique person - neither a philosopher nor a general, important though they are, but a Saviour, with the power to forgive. Forgiveness lies at the heart of the Christian faith. It can heal broken families, it can restore friendships and it can reconcile divided communities. It is in forgiveness that we feel the power of God's love."

In the face of a growing divide between faith and secularism, the monarch delivered a staunch defence of the Church and religion. The Queen, speaking to leaders of Britain's nine main religions on one of the first public events to mark her Diamond Jubilee in February said the Church of England was "woven into the fabric of this country" and had helped to build a better society. The Queen took the unusual step of highlighting the powerful role faith plays in society.

"The concept of our established Church is occasionally misunderstood and, I believe, commonly under-appreciated," She said. "Its role is not to defend Anglicanism to the exclusion of other religions. Instead, the Church has a duty to protect the free practice of all faiths in this country."

I believe our country is fortunate to have had such an impressive record of dedicated service.

Please note our summer series on wonder and the creation will take place on Tuesday evenings in June and July. It is this dimension of wonder that is lacking today for so many. In the wake of the destruction of civilisation after the First World War, the German sociologist Max Weber said that a key feature of modern life was its drabness. We live in a world where uniformity and sameness characterise things. Mass production, mechanical and now electronic ways of living create distance and a loss of aura that undermines things being special and wonderful. The loss of religion, as he saw it, contributes to this since we try to have an explanation for everything and no longer see the hand of God. Urban living adds to this scene enormously for in the country, it is easier to glimpse a sense of wonder.

One aspect of our church's Mission Action Plan is to try to create a spirituality hub in North Devon. In other words, we want to build on a sense of wonder that is there to be evoked, especially when we look up. Exmoor has recently been granted Dark Sky status - amongst the first anywhere in Europe. Here is something to draw on. It lends itself to pilgrimage, to a ministry of spiritual tourism and enhancing the experience of those who live here.

More of this in due course but a start on this aspect of our Mission Plan is intended for our summer series. This will take two forms. Firstly, our series of Countisbury epilogues on summer Sundays in July and August will have the creation as its theme. Speakers will be contributing to this awareness and it makes for a great evening out, especially if the weather is good to us as it was last year. Seeing the sun die away and the coast in full throttle is very special.

Secondly, we will be laying on a summer series of seminars and Bible study showing how "The heavens declare the glory of God." Seminars saying something about the cosmic architecture and how it all came to be in place will be accompanied by biblical material about the creation. A sub-text of this subject is always "Is the Bible in conflict with modern science?" To accompany this emphasis, we want to arrange some evening walks, guided by expert eyes and hands to make sense of what we see when we look up. So come along if you wonder what Genesis actually says, if science and faith are in conflict or is their marriage the great event of the 21st century?

Best Wishes,

Rev. Chris

LETTER FROM REV. CHRIS

Dear Friends

900 Easters

As I write, everywhere nature is waking up.The festival of flowers has begun its annual pageant and daffodils fill every grove at least thats how it is in my garden.Wait till April really gets going. Nature really will have woken to humming life and glorious technicolour. The seasons get demarcated in my garden by colour.April is the yellow month!

Its like that with a faith that centres on the events of the first Good Friday and Easter. God raised him up and life came bursting out more irresistible than any flower, more irrepressible than any plant. Jesus could not remain in the tomb for long. He broke through.We know all too keenly that life does that in our gardens but not with people. Even with the promise of resurrection and the life eternal, the death of loved ones haunts us profoundly. Human or animal life does not return not to this world. Yet with Jesus it was different. He was full of divine life.God raised him up and his soul and body came back, restored not to a temporary state in which death has been suspended but to an eternal power in which he would never die again. This is Easter- it means rising!

The evidence for the resurrection is a lot stronger than you might think. This is not the tooth fairy.Do you realise that at one stroke, the authorities could have stopped the new Christian movement in its tracks? They could have produced the body! That would have put an end to this nonsense about Jesus coming back to life.But they didnt and they couldnt. The tomb was empty. This was a crime scene and the body of evidence had disappeared. Who moved the stone? No one ever visited the tomb and made it a shrine of pilgrimage. The tomb completely fades out of the story.If the authorities never produced the body of Jesus, neither did his followers. Even when intense persecution threatened, the first Christians kept on insisting that Jesus had returned from death and that they were eye-witnesses.

For over nine centuries, the church in Berrynarbor has been proclaiming and witnessing to this message, especially at Easter. That makes over 900 Easters!900 times, bells, readings, chants and hymns have been alive this time of year with a message of joy and hope.

Heres a thought.If any archaeologist should ever be able to find the tomb of Jesus beyond doubt, the local church here would have to pack up and go home!They wont, of course, but the resurrection is so central to Christian faith that take it away and it all collapses.Jesus rose again and this incredible fact means that on offer is complete forgiveness, the chance to wipe the slate clean, peace, strength and Gods very live presence and hope for the future.

By all means discuss and debate with me what an Easter faith means. Or come along to a special meditation on Good Friday at 2.00 to 3.00 p.m. to mark the last hour of Jesus on the cross, or on Easter Sunday morning at 11.00 a.m.

Best wishes,

Rev Chris

P.S. While we are on dates, here is a big whoops! I was inaccurate in the February Newsletter regarding Bishop John Jewell, the local boy. This year is the 450th anniversary of a major book he wrote in defence of the Church of England and the moderate position it had come to.It was called The Apology. 2012 is not the 500th anniversary of his birth for John Jewell was born in 1522. What a mistake for a historian to make!

The Rectory,
Combe Martin

Dear Friends,

A great big "THANK YOU" to everyone in the village who responded so magnificently to our appeal for help with the bells.

It certainly proved an 'opportunity' [see my last letter] for the whole community to come together and enjoy not only curry but some wonderful entertainment in the Manor Hall and the Globe - despite, on occasions, the weather.

Thank you so much to those of you who organised and took part in the activities. As I write this, the carpenters are due to start work on the bells and you have raised the money for that. I am sure it must be some sort of record for so much money to be raised in such a short time. I think it reflects the affection in which the bells and the bell-ringers of Berrynarbor are held and I take this opportunity to thank Michael and his intrepid band of ringers for all their hard work over the years. I think our ringers are great.

Oh, just in case you are wondering, I do not intend to have a Gift Day this year. Your love and support for the Church has been generously demonstrated already. Once again, THANK YOU VERY MUCH.

With all good wishes,
Your Friend and Rector,

Keith Wyer

The Rectory,
Combe Martin.

Dear Friends,

There was once a Hotel in the West Country which was drifting along quite nicely, but the manager wanted to improve things. So he got all his staff together and told them that things needed to improve, especially their mental attitude. There was too much laziness and negative thinking. People complained too much, and that was just the staff! He wanted a new start with a fresh attitude! In future there would be no problems, only opportunities.

With this in mind, he wanted to see a big improvement starting with the clergy conference which was starting that very afternoon.

Inevitably some clergy arrived early [glad to get out of the parish] and were shown to their rooms. After a few minutes the telephone rang down at Reception.

"Good morning, Reception. How can I help?"

"Good morning. This is the Revd. Jackson-Smythe in room 201. I have a problem."

The receptionist, remembering the "pep-talk", responded. "We don't have problems here, only opportunities."

"Er, hum . . that may well be, but I have a blonde in my bed."

Problems or opportunities? It depends on how we view things. The problem of the village Post Office and Shop closing, became an opportunity for the village to come together to produce something which was vital for the community. What a blessing it is too!

This year will bring many problems I expect, but we can view them as opportunities to improve the quality of life for all the villagers.

It's the same for the church. As some of you may know, we have a "problem" with the bell frame which will need replacing or repairing. However, while we are waiting for the various authorities to give their permission, we have an opportunity to start raising the money necessary for the repair. I am sure that with a good positive attitude and the good-will, which is obvious in the village, Michael need have no worries, and bells will once again ring out over Berrynarbor.

With all good wishes,
Your Friend and Rector,

Keith Wyer

The Rectory
Combe Martin

Dear Friends,

All too often in the past, the Church has been charged with making people believe in a better world to come because life is bad on earth, preaching a form of 'escapism'. Christmas can be a time when people wish to escape from the harsh realities of the economic situation into a world of beauty and wonder, as highlighted in children's eyes and our imagination. Some people think they can buy their way into the hearts of others by buying expensive gifts - trying to escape from the fear of rejection by others.  But because our options may be reduced this year, for obvious reasons, let us just consider what Christmas is really all about. First it is all about Jesus being born in poverty. In a stable for animals, not a home for people. Placed in a manger not a cot. Born a refugee not in a secure home environment. [This is not escapism.] But nevertheless, born in an environment of love. How often on cards and in crib scenes do we see the 'holy family' together, bound in the mystery of birth and love. We cannot buy love, we can only give it away and see its results. There is no fear of rejection here - only a welcoming presence that seeks to embrace. [God has started his ministry of reconciliation by being born among us as being very vulnerable. We are all very vulnerable, and God shares that vulnerability.]

The shepherds - the outcasts of the Jewish world at that time - have the vision of heaven and are invited to go and see this thing that has happened at Bethlehem. We are also invited to 'come and see' in our hearts. For it is only when Jesus is born in our hearts that we even begin to get a glimpse that this event is not just something that affects us now, but has eternal qualities. As we go through the life and death of Jesus, where he opened his arms wide on the cross to embrace the world, the message comes through loud and clear that we are the object of God's love for the world. He does care, and feels for us, and wants us to begin to enjoy the eternal gifts he has in store. But you cannot buy or force love, you can only give it and hope that the recipient responds.

That's what Christmas is all about. Not the giving of expensive gifts, but of responding to the vulnerable love of God as revealed at Christmas and sharing that love with others.

Have a really wonderful & joyful Christmas,

Your Friend and Rector,

Keith Wyer

Illustration by: Paul Swailes

The Rectory
Combe Martin

Dear Friends,

The other day a colleague was telling me about a time when he was driving his very old Ford Fiesta at a steady 28 mph in a  built-up area, when he noticed in his mirror a very expensive Aston Martin driving up his tail-pipe, very anxious to get by.  My colleague, out of sheer devilment I suspect, carried on his sedate way. As they came towards a bend in the road, he noticed the police waiting with a radar speed gun. Being the careful driver he was, he actually slowed down.  This was too much for the high flying executive who wanted to go places! He put his foot down and shot round the bend, right into the arms of the men in blue. Sure enough a few hundred yards up the road the Aston Martin had been pulled over. My colleague waved politely as he passed - poetic justice.

The trouble is, I think we have all at some time or other been guilty of exceeding the speed limit and were just grateful that we weren't caught. So perhaps we ought to be more kind in our judgement of others, especially if the driver of the Aston Martin was a hospital surgeon on his way to an emergency.

We may judge others, and think "Poetic Justice", but God never does. He always looks for the best and even loves us when he knows that we have done wrong. He positively goes out looking for us to bring us back "home" with him. [Just think of the Prodigal Son and the love of the Father.] That's why Jesus was sent into the world, to reveal the extent of God's love for us. However, that does excuse us from driving carefully when the welfare of others is at stake.

With all good wishes,
Your Friend and Rector,

Keith Wyer

The Rectory,
Combe Martin.

Dear Friends,

I've just got back from a short trip to the island of Arran in Scotland. Five hundred miles from door to door, not including the ferry crossing.

We had a good journey both up and down from the isle. It was great to get in the car and drive off at 6:15 a.m. and arrive at the ferry terminal at 3:15 p.m. Across the blue water, the sleeping warrior (name given to the mountain range by some Scots on the mainland) beckoned to us. The crossing was very calm. With the car safely tucked away with the other vehicles, it was time to relax in the lounge looking through the forward windows towards our destination.

It suddenly struck me. I was no longer in control. In the car I could steer the vehicle any way I wanted. I could travel at any speed I wanted. I could stop at a service station if I wished or even turn off the motorway. But now, my path across the water was determined by the Captain who could go as fast or as slow as the ferry would allow [and most comfortably and safely for his passengers], and I couldn't do a thing about it! In one sense it was a great relief. I had been driving for miles, and now someone else had the responsibility. If I trusted the Captain to do his job I could relax and enjoy the trip until we arrived safely at our destination.

It was a bit like life really. Once we realize that we are in God's hands, and let go, and allow him to take over we can enjoy the trip. Oh yes, we need to have faith or trust in our Captain - that he knows the route and the destination and that he will bring us safely to our eternal home. But that reassurance comes from the life, teaching, death and resurrection of Our Lord.

Enjoy the trip.

With all good wishes,
Your Friend and Rector,

Keith Wyer

The Rectory
Combe Martin

Dear Friends,

There are some grandmothers of a certain age to whom the word "Chippendales" does not denote a piece of furniture! (Enough said!)

And the meaning of the word "gay" has changed dramatically. And if I said to you what do the words "joint", "grass" and "coke" conjure up in your mind, I expect I might get quite a few different answers!

Now, what does the word "Trinidad" conjure up in your mind? Some might think of a Caribbean island with palm trees on a white sand sea-shore with soft gentle breezes fanning your golden brown body. Some might think of H.M.S. Trinidad from the Second World War.

Yet others may think of Christopher Columbus who in fact discovered the island. As he sailed towards the island he thought he saw three small islands, but as he got closer and closer he realised that in fact it was three mountains on one island, which reminded him of the Trinity, three and yet, one. Hence the name for the island.

But the concept of the Trinity is still a wonderful mystery, because it seeks to do justice to the revelation of God as Father (as taught by Jesus); the Son (Jesus-God in human form); and Spirit which is another way of expressing "God in action". The word ""God" can mean different things to different people. Yet the Christian doctrine of the Trinity tries to give as full a meaning as possible to that word, while humbly remembering all the time that our finite minds cannot grasp the full reality of an infinite God.

That is why Christians ask the help of the Holy Spirit to guide and help them in their earthly pilgrimage of discovery. Words never give the full meaning of what we are trying to express, that is why actions speak louder than words! That is why God came to earth in human form.

With all good wishes,
Your Friend and Rector,

Keith Wyer

LETTER FROM THE RECTOR

The Rectory
Combe Martin

Dear Friends

With Spring in the air, it reminds me of the short story by Oscar Wilde about the selfish giant. You probably know it very well. I didn't until a couple of months ago when the Sunday School at Combe Martin retold the story to the congregation.

The giant wanted to keep the children out of his garden where they used to play. He built a wall around it to keep them out. Then winter set in, and stayed for months, but just in his garden. Outside spring had come, but not for him. He was very sad and eventually realised how selfish he had been. Winter stayed in his garden until he suddenly heard a bird singing. He looked out and saw the trees coming into flower because the children had found a way in and were playing in the branches. He was delighted and allowed the children to play in his garden. Spring and summer had come! However, one tree was still in winter because a young child couldn't reach the branches to climb up. The giant ran over and lifted the child into the branches, and immediately it came into flower.

The giant loved to see the children in his garden and the garden bloomed, but he never saw this one small child again until he was very old, when he saw him by the tree in bloom. As he ran over his heart filled with rage. "Who did this to you?" he demanded when he saw holes in his hands and feet. "These are the marks of love." said the boy, "And as you allowed me to play in your garden, so come into mine. Paradise."

Read the story for yourself. Oscar Wilde's version is much better than my couple of sentences, but it makes one or two points.

If we are selfish we put up boundaries to keep others out of our world. We devalue ourselves as well as others. We actually need others to become fully alive.

Springtime reminds us not only of life coming back to the earth, but also of our need to let life back into our existence. The quality of life is so important and by helping others, we actually help ourselves. It also reminds me that children are great at breaking down barriers! When we are trying to be all stern and serious they will say or do something which will make us laugh, and "open us up". The story also reminds me that the risen Jesus (still with the marks of his passion) came to bring us life, and that we should have it in all its fullness.

A Happy Eastertide to you all.

Your Friend and Rector,

Keith Wyer

LETTER FROM THE RECTOR

The Rectory
Combe Martin

Dear Friends,

Now that we are into 2008, will it be a good year or a bad year? Are you an optimist or a pessimist? George Bernard Shaw said we need both optimists and pessimists in society. An optimist invents an aeroplane. A pessimist invents a parachute.

There is a lovely story about two brothers who wanted horse riding lessons for Christmas. When they rushed down to the Christmas tree on Christmas Day morning, they did not find the usual presents all wrapped up neatly beside the tree. Instead they found two buckets of manure and a fork.

"Oh no!" said the first brother, "Where are all the presents and the money to go horse riding? No one ever listens, and no one cares! How rotten! This is the worst Christmas I can ever remember. All we have is a bucket of manure to put on the garden."

"Don't be so silly." said the other. "Can't you see? If there is a bucket of manure, then there must be a horse somewhere. We've got a horse each for Christmas! Come on, it must be outside waiting for us."

When we are in the middle of events, it's sometimes hard to see the wood for the trees. For many of us, it's only afterwards that we discover the silver lining in the storm clouds. But so often when we look back, it seems as if there was a pattern, or plan, in what happened, and sometimes we reluctantly (or happily) see that things have worked out for the best.

So often we feel pessimistic, but when we realise that we are in God's hands, then we have grounds for optimism.

With all good wishes,
Your Friend and Rector,

Keith Wyer

The Rectory
Combe Martin

Dear Friends,

Did you see that repeat programme on the television the other month about those who have been awarded the V.C. for bravery over and above that expected by a British serviceman?

It was a fascinating programme highlighting the courage of soldiers, sailors and airmen. The thing that struck me about all these brave men is that you would probably just pass them by in the street without realizing their brave history. They were all unassuming men. They were not glory seekers.

The main person in the programme happened to be the presenter's father-in-law who was at Arnhem and his exploits defied even the Hollywood film-makers wildest dreams, knocking out Tiger tanks single handed while defending his wounded companions. His story was exceptional, and his daughter didn't even know about it until after his death. Her photograph of him showed him smiling behind his civilian work desk. If you walked into the office, you probably wouldn't even notice him. I think it was the humility of all those featured in the programme that impressed me.

Then last week on the BBC they did a series on "Carers" - how one woman was caring day and night for her husband who had Alzheimer's said that she had "lost" her husband years ago, and now was his carer not his wife. There were tears in her eyes as she spoke. It was out of love for him that she cared for him, although he did not even recognize her.

Then there were the children who are carers, who look after relatives before going to school, then dash home when school is over to carry on caring until the next school day begins. They have lost their childhood. Again, there was no "song and dance" about the situation, they just got on with the task in hand in a most unassuming way.

All this part of the real world is in sharp contrast to those who make the headlines in giving large donations to party politics and get a seat in the House of Lords as a result. God definitely sides with the lowly and humble who just get on with their caring and concern. That's why All Saints tide is so important in the Church. It reminds us not only of the great saints who were put to death for their faith, shining examples of Christ's love in action, but also the unnamed millions of Christians who have quietly got on with their lives of caring for others. They are saints too, although they would never admit it. A saint is someone who makes it easier to believe in God, and it's easier to believe in a loving caring God when his children are loving and caring also. That is just one of the messages in the festival of All Saints.

With all good wishes,
Your Friend and Rector

Keith Wyer

The Rectory
Combe Martin

Dear Friends

John Constable [1776-1837] is one of the greatest artists England has ever produced and is considered to be one of the finest landscape artists in the history of art. His work includes such masterpieces as "The Hay Wain", "Dedham Vale", "The Cornfield" and "The White Horse", etc.

On one occasion when he was very famous, he was staying at a village inn where a young girl of eleven was also staying and trying to paint landscapes.

It so happened that one afternoon he came across this young girl painting but without much success. He stood quietly by as she tried to make the paint behave itself but she was getting more and more frustrated and angry.

The great man went and stood by her and asked if he could borrow her brush. The girl handed it over. With a few quick strokes, Constable, without altering in any way the work the girl had done, transformed the painting into a thing of beauty.

When we invite God into our lives, He never seeks to change what we are, but transforms us into what we have the potential to become.

With all good wishes.

Your Friend and Rector

Keith Wyer

LETTER FROM THE RECTOR

The Rectory
Combe Martin

Dear Friends

Easter celebrates New Life. Jesus was raised from the dead and  appeared to the disciples. All that happened about two thousand years ago. What about now? Today I came across Anthony Bloom's book,  "School for Prayer." He writes:

"While I was reading the beginning of St. Mark's Gospel, before I reached the third chapter, I suddenly became aware that on the other side of my desk there was a presence. And the certainty was so strong  that it was Christ standing there that it has never left me.This was the real turning point.Because Christ was alive and I had been in his presence I could say with certainty that what the Gospel said  about the crucifixion of the prophet from Galilee was true, and the centurion was right when he said "Truly he is the Son of God"... I became absolutely certain within myself that Christ is alive and that certain things existed.I didn't have all the answers, but having  touched that experience, I was certain that ahead of me there were answers, visions, possibilities."

His presence and New Life is here for all of us to experience. That is a real cause for celebration.

A Happy and Joyful Easter to you all,
With all good wishes,
Your Friend and Rector,

Keith Wyer

LETTER FROM THE RECTOR

The Rectory
Combe Martin

Dear Friends,

I had a digital camera at Christmas. It's a very 'posh' one, with 10 mega-pixel capacity and inter-changeable lens! Impressed, aah? Not only can you have wide-angle to telephoto in one lens, but you can also have macro lens capability as well. This little camera also has the ability, by pressing a little button, to focus automatically and a red light flashes when this is done!
 
If it's too dark, the flashgun pops up automatically and fires so that the perfect shot is recorded. I can then view the photograph at the back of the camera and 'zoom in' on any part of the photograph to make sure I want to keep it. If I don't, I just delete it and carry on. I think it even tells me the time anywhere in the world, but I've not yet
discovered if it can make me a cup of tea.
 
I was thinking, wouldn't it be marvellous if we could just focus in on God by pressing a button? But I suppose if we didn't like what we saw, or didn't like the message, we could just press a button and delete it and carry on. But God isn't like that. He is not an object to be photographed in that way. He is more of a presence or sensation.
 
Sometimes when we go into a Church, we 'sense' his presence and his peace. Sometimes when we see a wonderful view or a fantastic sunset, we feel a sense of awe and wonder. Sometimes we get a sense of his love when somebody does something for us we didn't expect. I suppose that's the problem really, the fact that God isn't static, like a photograph, but dynamic and active and trying all sorts of different methods of communication to reach us.

It is not just a question of seeing, hearing, touching, but of being aware all the time. The wonderful photographs that we take just capture our subject at one moment of time. The views or the person we've photographed have been there for a long time, it's just that we have seen something that has attracted our attention at that particular moment. God has always been here, and he is trying different ways of attracting our attention. Perhaps like the keen photographer who always has his camera with him, we too ought to be on the look out for God in our everyday world.

With all good wishes,
Your Friend and Rector,

Keith Wyer

LETTER FROM THE RECTOR

The Rectory
Combe Martin

Dear Friends,

I love the story about an eight year old girl who was so excited on Christmas Eve. All the house was decorated, and there were presents around the tree, including a big one with her name on it. It took her a long time to go to sleep, because she was so excited. Her parents were woken up at two o' clock in the morning, as she called out, "Mommy, Daddy, come and look!"

"Oh dear", thought her father, "She has opened her surprise present. Oh well, I'd better go down and then come back to bed later." Wearily he put his dressing gown on and left the bedroom, only to discover his daughter on the landing, gazing out of the window.

"Oh, Daddy, do come and look! Isn't it beautiful? Look, there in the sky. The star of Bethlehem is shining!"

The little girl's delight in the shining of the star, beat all her presents for magic and beauty. She was captivated by the star and what it represented. It reminds us that Jesus has to be born in our hearts and minds so that we can experience the joy and beauty of what Christmas really means. It has nothing to do with profit margins and the "big sell". Nothing to do with eating so much that we feel sick. It is to do with the miracle of God on earth so that we can share with God in heaven.

Have a wonderful and Christ-filled Christmas,

Your Friend and Rector,

Keith Wyer

LETTER FROM THE RECTOR

The Rectory
Combe Martin

Dear Friends

The other day I came across the story of the cave. Do you know it? It goes something like this:

There was once a dark cave, deep down in the ground, underneath the earth and hidden away from view. Because it was so deep in the earth, the light had never been there. The cave had never seen the light. The word 'light' meant nothing to the cave, who couldn't imagine what 'light' might be.

Then one day the sun sent an invitation to the cave, inviting it to come up and visit. When the cave came up to visit the sun it was amazed and delighted because the cave had never seen light before, and it was dazzled by the wonder of the experience.

Feeling so grateful to the sun for inviting it to visit, the cave wanted to return the kindness and so it invited the sun to come down to visit it some time, because the sun had never seen darkness.

So the day came and the sun went down and was courteously shown into the cave. As it entered, it looked around with great interest, wondering what 'darkness' would be like. Then it became puzzled and asked the cave, "Where is the darkness?"

It seems to me that that is exactly the same response God makes when he enters our inner hearts and selves. Jesus the light and love of the world, dispels the darkness, fear and hurt in our lives when we invite him in.

With all good wishes,

Your Friend and Rector

Keith Wyer

LETTER FROM THE RECTOR

The Rectory
Combe Martin

"You there!" said Friedrich. "Where are you going?"
The man began to shake. "Into this house, Your Majesty."
"Is it your house?"
"No, Your Majesty."
"A friend's house?"
"No, Your Majesty."
"Then why are you entering it?"

The man now began to fear that he would be taken for a burglar. So he blurted out the truth.

"To avoid Your Majesty."
"Why would you wish to avoid me?"
"Because I am afraid of Your Majesty."

At this Friedrich Wilhelm became livid with rage. Seizing the poor man by the shoulders, he shook him violently, crying, "How dare you fear me! I am your ruler. You are supposed to love me! Love me, wretch! Love me!"

I am reminded that St. Paul, talking about God, said, "Perfect love casts out fear." Love makes its appeal to us through the life, death, and resurrection of our Lord. (The Pauline hymn to love, so often read at marriages services, can be found in 1 Corinthians, Chapter 13.)

With all good wishes,
Your Friend and Rector,

Keith Wyer

Illustrated by:Paul Swailes

The Rectory,
Combe Martin.

Dear Friends,

Overheard at the breakfast table:

Mother: "What does your girlfriend like in you?"
Son: "She thinks I'm handsome, talented, clever, and a good dancer."
Mother: "And what do you like about her?"
Son: "She thinks I'm handsome, talented, clever, and a good dancer."

This relationship seems a bit one sided to me. True love is concerned not with self but with the other person and their qualities. Physical attraction may bring us together, as St. Valentine's time reminds us, but true love is really beyond definition and words, and perhaps shows itself in all sorts of little ways of concern and support. Rather like this definition of love by Elaine, aged 5: "Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken", or perhaps the quote I gave at Christmas and some of you have asked for a copy: "Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen." - Bobby, aged 7.

Love can be timeless and just being with the other person is heaven, but as St. Valentine's time reminds us, love shows itself in action, expressing that love we have for the other person. But perhaps the greatest thing about love, is the realisation that you are loved, that you are precious in their eyes, that you matter and are valued, for just being you.

That's the kind of love God has for you and me. Enjoy St. Valentine's Day (and all the rest as well!)

With all good wishes,

Your Friend and Rector,

Keith Wyer

The Rectory
Combe Martin

Dear Friends

Did you hear about a bishop who died and went up to heaven? As he arrived in heaven he was shown into a waiting room where there were other bishops and clergymen who had also just died. They all exchanged warm greetings, until the new bishop asked why they were all waiting.
"Funny you should say that," answered one bishop, "I've just summoned St. Peter to ask that very question." Whereupon St. Peter duly arrived.

"I am so sorry to hold you all up," he said, "But we are expecting a very special person who is due any moment. Please excuse me, I must go and finish off the preparations."

"Well, I never!" said a bishop, "Someone very special, eh? I wonder if the Archbishop has died, or even the Pope?"
With that, an eighteen year old buxom blonde walked into the room and straight into heaven.
The bishops and clergy were dumbfounded. Had their eyes deceived them? Not all of them surely! Slowly a senior bishop regained his composure.
"There must be some mistake," he said, "I demand an audience with St. Peter." With that St. Peter duly arrived.

He listened to the words of disapproval. Finally he said, "Gentlemen, that young lady has got into heaven before you because she has been driving a red sports car for a fortnight, and in that time she has put the fear of God into more men than the whole of you lot put together."

Putting the "fear of God" into people is not, nowadays, the main thrust of the Gospel message. When we become aware of God's presence, the awe of his nature is all the "fear" we need. It's then that we need the reassurance of God's grace, love and goodness towards us. The Gospel message of God's love that passes all understanding is the core of the "good news"! The enfolding of God's love drives away fear, so that for the Christian, it is the expression of God's love in our lives that becomes the distinguishing feature of the Christian witness.

With all good wishes, Your Friend and Rector,

Keith Wyer

A note for your Diary: Friday, 4th November, 7.30 p.m: Barnstaple Concert Band is giving a concert in the Parish Church. They gave a great concert earlier this year in Combe Martin, and it should be a cracking evening. [Someone you know is a member!]

The Rectory,
Combe Martin

Keith Wyer

The Rectory
Combe Martin

Dear Friends,

Well, I suppose my secret is out now. Yes, I am a secret trombone player who last summer joined up with the Barnstaple Concert Band, because they practice on a Tuesday evening, my day off. It struck me that in the many orchestras and bands I played in had a lot to teach me about the Christian life.

When we want to play an instrument, we have to be shown how to play it, and to practice a lot. (Which reminds me of a book marker I have which says "Love thy neighbour - even if he plays a trombone!") But strangely, to be a good player or singer, the first thing is to listen. Listen to yourself, the others, to make sure you are in tune, and in time with the rest of the players.

We have to discipline ourselves to follow the conductor and play softly or loudly as the composer intended, and not just as we want. We have to discipline ourselves to practice, to read music if we are to play the kind of music the composer intended.

All these items seem to mirror our Christian life, where we need an example to follow, whether it be our parents or good friends. We need to work at loving and caring for people, even those we don't get on with too well. We need to discipline ourselves if we are to progress in the area of life, and that is true for worship as well. We need to listen to our conscience, the wise words of others, and, of course, God. The conductor represents the person who has the insight or awareness of what the composer/God intends and tries to shape a group of individuals into a coherent group/community to reflect his intention and will. To read the composer's intentions is reflected in the Bible as a score for what God wants his children to be doing and become.

In which case we are all musicians in the symphony of life, with its slow movements, its lively movements, and its very fast sections. All I can tell you, is that for a wonderful sound, everyone is needed to make their contribution to the best of their ability. I know that I'm still learning.

With all good wishes,
Your Friend and Rector,

Keith Wyer.

LETTER FROM THE RECTOR

The Rectory
Combe Martin

Dear Friends,

I am just recovering from seeing the final film of 'The Lord of the Rings', which I think will remain a 'classic' for many generations. There is one part of the film which sticks out in my memory because not only is it a great scene, but I do not remember reading it in the original story [which was many years ago, and of course I might have forgotten it, but I think not.] In this battle scene, a good king is being defended by his courageous daughter and is just about to be killed off by the faceless, ghostly, black evil king, who boasts that he cannot be killed by man. At which point, the daughter draws her sword and says: "I am no man! I am a woman!", and proceeds to drive the sword into the place where the face of the evil king should be. Apparently she receives a shock, which throws her backwards, while the evil king shrivels up into nothing and disappears. [Rather like the wicked witch of the west in the 'Wizard of Oz'.]

But it is interesting that in the film, the sources of 'evil' have no face, and only want to destroy and reduce things to nothing. Even the ultimate source of evil has no face, but only an eye, and returns to 'nothing'.

Yet, at the end of the film [and you will need a handkerchief], some of the main characters leave the world which we know, and sail off, not into a sunset but to a brilliant radiant light which is warm and inviting. [Bilbo Baggins says, as he leaves his friends, "l am ready for a new adventure. "]

The whole epic seems to reflect the conflict between good and evil, life and death, being and non-being. The Christian tradition maintains that God created out of nothing, and that He calls us in the journey of life to Himself. This journey we call a pilgrimage and we are all involved in it.

Where death seems to drag us into 'nothingness', the resurrection of Jesus tells us that there is a new adventure ahead. When winter drags us down, spring offers us the new hope of life and summer to come. Always in the difficulties we face, the Christian message offers us the hope and love we need to complete our pilgrimage.

With all good wishes,
Your Friend and Rector,

Keith Wyer

[By the way, I hope you enjoyed the film as much as I did.]

LETTER FROM THE RECTOR

The Rectory,
Combe Martin

Dear Friends,

I wonder how many of us will be getting the indispensable computer for Christmas this year. Or maybe some of us will be getting a digital camera. For some of us, these marvels of modern technology are 'old hat', but for some of us trying to find our way round the handbook and the 'easy-to-use' guide book, it will be something akin to learning a new language with the marvels of JPEG's and Modems, operated by your 'mouse' or incorporated in your 'software' [not painful, I'm told!]. I often find that the 'simple logic' of the 'program' and handbook are not as simple as me! I can get lost in my files and computer pathway, not to mention the hard drive - aren't all driveways hard to carry the weight of a car?

Sometimes I get a feeling of elation when I suddenly see what is meant to happen and things work 'like what they oughter'. I think the word I am looking for is 'enlightened', like my mouse when I switch the computer on! But I have to be honest and admit that sometimes I get so frustrated that I could happily throw the lot out of the window. As I did not get all my equipment from PC World, a nice little man will not suddenly appear at my door and show me what to do. But I am grateful to friends and especially my youngest son, Michael, who in this case lives up to the meaning of his Hebrew name - one like unto God - who seems to know all about computers, and especially this one of mine! He jolly well ought to, he built the thing! Well, this is all a bit like the meaning of Christmas really.

Jesus came to life on earth not just to tell us what the maker wants, but to actually show us: his love, mercy and forgiveness and how this operates in our daily lives. The operation manual is there for us all to read, but I find it easier when someone shows me how to do it and then lets me get on to practice. Michael's advice to me on the computer was to 'play and enjoy' it. I believe that God's advice to us, when we have mastered the basics of life, is to 'play and enjoy' it. However, sometimes life is not very enjoyable, it can be very frustrating and painful, but Jesus is in the messy and hurtful things of life as well. Taking our human life on earth, meant taking us completely, 'warts and all', and God is happy to do just that. When I get frustrated and angry when my computer has 'crashed' for the third time in ten minutes, I find it a great comfort to be able to pick up the phone and speak to my knowledgeable son, and by the marvels of modern science, he can actually repair my computer over the internet. [Is there a parable here on prayer?]

God knows all about our life here on earth, because he has done it and understands. That's just part of the meaning of Christmas. [To find out more come along to www.St. Peter. Parish Church, Berrynarbor.com.]

Have a happy and joyful Christmas and New Year,

Your Friend and Rector,

Keith Wyer

LETTER FROM THE RECTOR

The Rectory
Combe Martin

Dear Friends,

Have you noticed that in this life if you want something, you have to work jolly hard to get it? Whether it be exams, getting into a sports team, or wanting to buy a house, or get promotion at work. There are always hurdles and obstacles to overcome and be mastered - like learning to use a computer! So, it came as no surprise that when three people set out to gain the water of eternal life they took all their skill and art with them.

The first was a great warrior who reasoned that the water of life would be a roaring torrent and would need to be fought and defeated before giving up its eternal power. So he put on his armour, sword and shield, and took two lances in case he lost one, and for good measure put four daggers around his belt. [You can't be too careful!]

The second person was really wealthy and reasoned that he would have to pay a king's ransom for this most precious of all gifts. He therefore stuffed his pockets with jewels, gold and precious stones - all his wealth - and staggered off into the sunset to search for the water which he thought would be a majestic fountain.

The third person considered that the water would be special and mysterious with magical powers protecting it, so she put on her special 'magic' robe and took her book of magical spells with which to enchant and trap the special water. Off she struggled into the sunset to discover the source for eternal life which must surely be a deep, mysterious pond.

It so happened that they all arrived together at the source of water of eternal life. It was no mighty stream or deep pool, or fantastic fountain.

In fact it was a gentle brook coming up from the earth.

The warrior could not drink it because of his armour, and the merchant couldn't drink it because he couldn't bend down, and neither could the woman of charms because of all her books.

Before they could all drink, they had to get rid of everything in which they had trusted, and humbly kneel down to drink the water of eternal life.

In the Christian faith, the gift of eternal life comes free from God, if we are humble enough to accept it.

With all good wishes
Your Friend and Rector

Keith Wyer

LETTER FROM THE RECTOR

The Rectory
Combe Martin

Dear Friends,

It might seem a rude question, but 'What do you take with you when you have a bath?' I know some people take soap, or cleansing gel, some even take a flannel or a loofer or even a pumice stone. Children have even been known to take a rubber or plastic duck, a boat even, and some a boat and a submarine! Some adults have even been known to take flippers, a wet-suit and even an aqua lung with a spear-gun! But that was Mr. Bean!!

When we witness to the love of God, we don't need lots of 'extras', we just need ourselves and God's grace. We don't need a lot of baggage, just ourselves and Him. Our experience of God's love is all we need to help bring in God's kingdom here on earth by sharing His love with others.

We show God's love when we are courteous to others, even strangers or visitors, and it is surprising what a warm welcome is created by just saying "Good Morning" to the people we meet. But there again, you knew that anyway, didn't you!

With all good wishes,
Your Friend and Rector,

Keith Wyer

The Rectory,
Combe Martin

Dear Friends,

The other week I came across an account of Shakleton's Antarctic Expedition. It was very similar to the account on TV but for one very important detail. Having survived appalling conditions for two weeks in an open boat in an attempt to get help for the stranded expedition, Shakleton and two of his companions, Worsley and Crean, struck out across glaciers and ice-covered mountains of South Georgia in an attempt to reach the whaling station on the other side of the unmapped island. They roped themselves together and steered by compass. They found themselves in blind passes; and almost fell into a gigantic chasm, 200 feet deep and 200 feet broad. Finally they reached a ridge so steep they could sit on it and dangle their feet on either side of it.

Fog and darkness meant that they could not go back, and if they did not move they would freeze to death. Shakleton said, "It's a devil of a risk, but we've got to take it. We'll slide." Each grabbed the one in front and with Shakleton in the lead they set off. They shot down the slope at a mile a minute, until eventually they ended up in a snowdrift at the bottom.

The trio eventually reached the station and their companions on the other side of the island were rescued and so were the rest of the expedition. This is the detail omitted by the television programme. Shakleton wrote: "When I look back on those days, I have no doubt that Providence guided us ... I know that, during that long and racking march of thirty-six hours over the unnamed mountains and glaciers of South Georgia, it seemed to me often that we were four, and not three. I said nothing to my companions on the point; but afterwards, Worsley said to me, "Boss, I had a curious feeling on the march that there was another person with us." Crean confessed the same idea."

Pentecost celebrates the coming of the Holy Spirit, which St. John describes as the Paraclete, the one alongside you, to be with you always. This is a real cause for celebration in our hearts and in our Church.

With all Good wishes,

Your Friend and Rector,

Keith Wyer

LETTER FROM THE RECTOR

The Rectory
Combe Martin

Dear Friends,

As we celebrate Springtime and Easter, new life is evident everywhere. This annual rebirth comes at the time when the church celebrates the new life as shown in the resurrection of Jesus from the tomb.

We all have to take very seriously the experience we call death, and some people can be transfixed by this event, and see nothing else, and in their minds keep going over and over the fear of death rather like a needle stuck in the groove of an old 78. The Bible is very clear about our coming from the dust of the earth, and 'unto dust we shall return'. Just read Genesis 2:7! do read that verse, you will also make a startling discovery, that God breathed His Life into us. God's life has made us alive, and if God's life is eternal, then an eternal 'spark' within all of us who experience this thing called 'life'. I am reminded of an old story when the gods were jealous when man was made, in case he threw them out of heaven, so one of the gods took man's eternal soul and hid it in a place where he reckoned man would never look for it - within himself.

Jesus said he came that man could have life, and have it in all its fullness. That life is the eternal life of God Himself dwelling within us. That quality of life can be experienced by us now, but not fully, until we have passed through that event we call death, and experience eternal life in a new dimension. Jesus' resurrection is the proof that God's love and life overcome even the event that most human's fear. No wonder that Easter is a time for celebration and joy, and I hope you all have a Happy and Joyful Easter and share that joy and peace with everyone else.

With all good wishes,
Your Friend and Rector

Keith Wyer

The Rectory
Combe Martin

Dear Friends,

One of my favourite pastimes is to listen to classical music, when I get the chance! I love listening to the symphonies of the great composers. I love the variations, the different textures, the different harmonies, and the different combinations of instruments and the different speeds of the four or so movements of a symphony.

Always the music is moving onwards towards the end, until we reach a memorable climax. At times the music is soft and gentle, at other times it is agitated and threatening. The first movement is often fairly quick in tempo, while the second movement is slow and thoughtful, the third movement is often dance-like and the final movement often march-like and quick! Very often the symphony paints a picture in your mind, like Beethoven's Pastoral Symphony or Tchaikovsky's 1812 Overture.

All this seems to be saying something about a New Year and changing circumstances and the different problems we have to face. We can often feel overwhelmed by what is happening, but if we have faith, then it's like trusting the composer with his symphony. There has to be change and modulations in the music. There is often change and modulations in our life, but with a faith in a loving God who cares for and loves us, we can feel secure in our spiritual journey and that we are in good hands. Whatever happens there are 'the everlasting arms' of a loving God [see St. John 3:16 and 17].

The world is always changing and we often change our minds, but God's love for us never changes. He is like the Good Shepherd who is always looking after his sheep, even when they wander off.

With all good wishes,

Your Friend and Rector,

Keith Wyer

LETTER FROM THE RECTOR

The Rectory
Combe Martin

Dear Friends,

As I write this, it is Sea Sunday, which reminds me of the newly promoted Rear Admiral who was involved in night exercises with the Fleet. Just after he had retired to bed, he was woken up by the Officer of the Watch who told him there was a searchlight directly ahead and that there might be a collision.

"Tell him to turn two points to starboard!" said the Rear Admiral. The Duty Officer obeyed.

Back came the signal: "No! You turn two points to starboard!" When the Rear Admiral heard this he shouted out to the signalman, "Send this: 'Turn two points to starboard. I am a Rear Admiral.'" 'That will sought him out' he thought.

Back came the message: "No! You turn two points to starboard. I am an ordinary Seaman."

When the Rear Admiral heard this he was furious. "Send this message: 'Turn two points to starboard. I am a battleship.'"

Back came the reply: "No! You turn two points to starboard. I am a lighthouse."

So often we think that we are in the right, and that 'might is right', but we can never argue with a loving God who is trying to warn us and guide us through the dangerous waters of life to bring us safe to our eternal harbour. We have freedom of choice to accept or deny his guidance, but like the captain of any ship or boat, the ultimate responsibility is ours. Safe and happy sailing!

With all good wishes,

Your Friend and Rector,

Keith Wyer

The Rectory
Combe Martin

Dear Friends,

I expect we all know the saying in Ps.46:10. Well, I came across an Anthony de Mello meditation the other day, which made me stop and think. What do you make of it?

A woman was in a coma dying. She suddenly had the feeling that she was being taken up to heaven and was there before the Judgement Seat, when a Voice said to her:

• 'Who are you?"
• "l am the wife of the Mayor," she replied.
• "l did not ask you whose wife you are, but who are you?"
• "I'm the mother of four children."
• "l did not ask you whose mother you are, but who are you?" "I'm a schoolteacher."
• "l did not ask what your profession is, but who are you?"

And so it went on and on, and no matter what she replied, she got the same response, "Who are you?"

• "I'm a Christian."
• "l did not ask what your religion is, but who are you?"
• "I'm the one who went to church every Sunday and always helped the poor and needy.
• "I did not ask you what you did but who you are."

She evidently failed the test, for she was sent back to earth. When she recovered from her illness, she was determined to find out who she was. And that made all the difference.

Antony de Mello goes on: Your duty is to be. Not to be somebody, not to be nobody - for therein lies greed and ambition not to be this or that - and thus become conditioned - but just to be.

By the way, just in case you forgot, Ps.46:10 goes: "Be still and know that I am God". [Antony de Mello's book is entitled 'Taking Flight' and is published by Doubleday.]

With all good wishes,
Your Friend and Rector,

Keith Wyer

The Rectory
Combe Martin

Dear Friends,

What would you think if someone out of the blue said to you 'Fish'? I expect some of us would think 'chips' or something like that. What would you think if someone said 'Easter'? Perhaps you might think, 'eggs', or 'spring flowers', or 'chicks'. It might bring to mind springtime, yellow flowers, new life. Deep down it refers to Jesus rising from the dead and the new life he came to bring. It's a day of victory and new hope, and with it comes a joy that is infectious. Do you remember the bad old days of President Amin of Uganda? All the evil things that went on there?

Do you remember that Archbishop Janani Luwum stood up to Amin and condemned all the evil that was going on? He was arrested and a few days later he was shot, although the authorities said he was killed in a car accident while trying to escape.

The Church was very sad, and planned a big funeral service for the Archbishop at the Cathedral. The grave had been dug and all the preparations had been made when suddenly the authorities refused to hand over his body, saying he had been buried elsewhere, but actually they didn't want anyone to find out that he had been murdered.

The service went on regardless, and at the end, the congregation processed out to the empty grave and stood round it in deep sorrow. But as they stood there, they realised that this empty tomb was actually a sign of hope. They were reminded of what the man in white said to the women at Jesus's tomb: "Why do you seek the living among the dead? He is not here. He is risen!" Their sorrow turned into joy, and they began to sing a great hymn of praise. So, when we hear the word 'Easter', it should remind us, not just of eggs and flowers, but of Jesus coming to be with his friends to give them lite hope, and to remember his words: "I am with you always, even to the end of Time." Have a Happy and Joyful Easter.

With all good wishes,

Your Friend and Rector,

Keith Wyer

Illustrated by: Paul Swailes

The Rectory
Combe Martin

Dear Friends,

Is a glass half full or half empty? How you answer that question will probably indicate how you look at the world. Are we in the depths of winter, or can you see signs of spring? Can we only see trouble in the world, or can we see signs of hope, love and care? Do we get depressed when we have to attend so many funerals, or do we see the love and support of God and so many people around us, that it gives us the strength to carry on?

We all have ups and downs in this life, and sometimes it's easier to be more negative than positive, but if we have eyes 'to see' [as Jesus would put it], we can witness to the signs of God's love for us in the world and in other people around us. The signs of Spring are here [in our garden the bulbs are coming up, there are primroses in flower, and to be honest, we've had roses in bloom all the time, and, of course, the grass needs cutting!] There are also signs of God's love for us evident in the care and consideration shown us by others in the village. The signs of spiritual growth are evident in the increase of numbers of people worshipping in Church, the thriving Sunday School, and not least in the nine candidates who were Confirmed by the Bishop of Crediton just before Christmas.

From the Christian point of view, we must always 'look on the bright side of life' [as one song puts it], not because we want to live in a make-believe world, because we quite clearly do not; but because in the last analysis our lives and the whole creation stems from God and he is in control of his creation, and that nothing, whatever life throws at us, can separate us from the love of God as revealed in his Son, Jesus Christ. As the writer of Deuteronomy 33:27 puts it: 'The eternal God is your dwelling place, and underneath are the everlasting arms.'

With all good wishes,
Your Friend and Rector,

Keith Wyer

LETTER FROM THE RECTOR

The Rectory
Combe Martin

Dear Friends,

A friend of mine loves Christmas and its true meaning. He recounts the story of one Christmas when the family had strict rules about not going down early on Christmas morning to look at what 'Father Christmas' had brought. The rule was for the first person awake to rouse the others and all the family to go down together. Well, at 4.30 a.m. on this one particular Christmas morning, the youngest member of the family, her eyes filled with excitement, came into their bedroom shouting: "Mommy, Daddy, come quick! It's lovely!"

My friend guessed that she had been downstairs and found the bicycle she had wanted. Feeling cheated and disappointed, they duly roused the other members of the family and went downstairs, being led by their youngest daughter.

Full of excitement, she went straight past the Christmas tree and the bicycle, to the eastern window, where she pulled back the curtains to reveal the night sky. "Look, isn't it lovely? The Star! The Star! I've seen the Star of Bethlehem!"

It seems a shame that many people have forgotten the wonder, awe and beauty of Christmas. Perhaps that is what Jesus meant when he said "Unless you become like children you will never enter the kingdom of God." Perhaps he was waking us up to the wonder and magic of God's world which is all around us, if only we had the eyes to see and the ears to hear!

Truth to tell, the most wonderful and beautiful thing about Christmas is that God's love became flesh and dwelt among us, to reveal our true nature and our final destiny.

With every Blessing for Christmas and the New Year,
Your Friend and Rector,

Keith Wyer

LETTER FROM THE RECTOR

The Rectory
Combe Martin

Dear Friends,

Autumn is upon us and harvest, ploughing and planting for next year are all in our minds. As I write this letter, the terrorist attacks in America have just taken place, and future events seem very uncertain. One wonders if the attacks are the result of evil men doing evil deeds, or are they the harvest of hurt and injustice planted many years ago?

Perhaps a bit of both!?

I thought the following few words by Petru Dumitriu might make us all think:

If I love the world as it is,
I am already changing it:
a first fragment of the world has been changed,
and that is my own heart.
Through this first fragment the light of God, his goodness and his love,
penetrate into the midst of his anger and sorrow and darkness,
dispelling them as the smile on a human face dispels the lowered brows and the frowning gaze.

To put things another way:

A new shop opened in the village. A woman went in and found God behind the counter.
"What are you selling here?"
"Everything you could possibly wish for. "
"Oh, good. I'll have happiness, wisdom, love, freedom from fear, and peace, please. Oh, and for everyone."
"Sorry, you got it wrong. I'm not selling any fruits, only seeds."

With all good wishes,
Your Friend and Rector,

Keith Wyer

LETTER FROM THE RECTOR

The Rectory
Combe Martin

Dear Friends,

When it was decided to build a bridge across the Hudson River at New York, divers were sent down to explore the bed of the river. Apparently, they discovered a wreck of a great sailing ship, half buried in the mud at a point where the engineers intended to sink one of the main piers. The wreck had to be moved. Tugs arrived on the scene and attached ropes securely to the wreck.

But to no avail, the wreck just would not move!

Eventually, someone had an idea. At this point the River Hudson is tidal, that is the sea level rises and falls roughly twice every twenty-four hours. At low tide, a number of large barges were towed out until they were floating above the wreck and secured to it with strong ropes. Everyone waited.

Gradually the barges began to rise on the incoming tide. Slowly and surely the Old wreck was dragged up out of its muddy grave and eventually taken away. Nothing could resist the power of the rising tide which had the whole might of the Atlantic Ocean behind it.

So it is with the love of God. Nothing can resist its power or conquer it. [If you get the chance, read 1 Corinthians, Chapter 13.]

With all good wishes,

Your Friend and Rector,

Keith Wyer

LETTER FROM THE RECTOR

The Rectory
Combe Martin

Dear Friends,

It's good to see all the daffodils bursting forth into flower. I always think that Springtime is perhaps the best time of the year, when life returns to the earth with a promise of even better things to come. I look back over the winter and think, 'Thank God, Spring has come!' It's Easter time and we remember the Resurrection and the promise of new life with God, now, and in the future. It reminds me that God is here, now, with me, and that He will always be with me, and that he always was with me, though I didn't realise it some times. Do you know that reading called "Footsteps"?

Ong night a man had a dream. He dreamed he was walking along a beach with the Lord. Across the sky flashed scenes from his life. For each scene, he noticed two sets of footprints in the sand: one belonged to him and the other to the Lord.

When the last scene of his life flashed before him, he looked back at the footprints in the sand. He saw that many times along the path there was only one set of footprints. He also noticed that it happened at the very lowest and saddest times of his life.

This really bothered him and he questioned the Lord about it: "Lord, you said that once I decided to follow you, you would walk with me all the way. But I have realised that during the most troublesome times of my life there is only one set of footprints. I do not understand why when I needed you most, you left me."

The Lord replied: "My precious, precious child, I love you and I would never leave you. During your times of suffering, when you see only one set of footprints, it was then that I carried you."

With all good wishes for a Happy and Joyful Easter,

Your Friend and Rector,

Keith Wyer

LETTER FROM THE RECTOR

The Rectory
Combe Martin

Dear Friends,

With the cold weather we have been having recently, it reminded me of the story of the two children playing in the snow, and they decided to see which one of them could walk in the straightest line.

"That's easy," said the one, and started to carefully place one foot in front of the other, looking intently at her feet as she went. When she finally looked up to see where her friend was, she discovered that she had, in fact, gone not in a straight line, but in a large curve.

"Well, if it's that easy, let's see if you can do any better!"

Her friend looked up and saw a tree at the end of the field, and without taking her eyes off the tree, she walked towards it. After about thirty yards [or should that be metres?], she stopped and looked back at the friend. The footprints were in a straight line.

The story reminds us, at the start of the New Year, to keep our eyes on our final destination, God and his heaven. We are all involved in this earthly pilgrimage, but let us not lose sight of Him, and lose our way.

I know how easy it is to get caught up in the hectic pace of life, as it is lived today, but please, take time out to look up and see where we are going.

With all good wishes, for the New Year and for your spiritual journey,

Your Friend and Rector,

Keith Wyer

The Rectory
Combe Martin

Dear Friends,

The beginning of December sees the start of Advent when we consider the coming, or the second coming of Christ. As we prepare for the celebration of Christmas, it is worth asking 'What kind of a God do we believe in?' The other day I came across a thought by Mark Pryce in the Lion publication: 'A Time to Reflect'. His story was set in an airport lounge with three men [one of whom was sick] together being watched by a bishop.

The three are saying goodbye. They are standing close together, arms about each other in an embrace and a hug. From time to time one will kiss the other and pat his back. One of them brushes away tears with the back of his hand, suddenly laughing at his own emotions, a little embarrassed perhaps.

The bishop does not want to stare too pointedly. His eyes slide towards the three then quickly look away He does not like what he has seen. Then his eyes are back again, suspicious, and he catches a trinitarian hug. He frowns his disapproval, shaking his head. He turns away in a scowl of disgust.

For me the bishop and the three friends are pictures of how we envision God. Two manifestations of divinity. The bishop's God is somewhere over the rainbow, way up high. He is distant, unapproachable, unengaged in human affairs except as the God of controlling power, looking down on us, watching us, watching our mistakes . . . with this God there is no satisfaction and no delight, but always disapproval . . .

The three friends signal that love, not hatred, is the heart of God. In their support and care of one another they say to me: God is our friends and not our enemy. In their touch and in the mutuality they say that God is with us. God is by us. That is what "Emmanuel" means.

With all good wishes,
Your Friend and Rector,

Kieth Wyer

LETTER FROM THE RECTOR

The Rectory
Combe Martin

Dear Friends,

It's Harvest Festival time again when we sing "We plough the fields and scatter the good seed on the land." Last month, someone handed me a letter, which I now share with you [I have amended it slightly].

Makes you think

Let's see, I think it started when Madeline O'Hare complained she didn't want any prayers in our schools, and we said OK.

Then someone said you'd better not read the Bible in school, the Bible that says thou shat not kill, thou shalt not steal, and love your neighbour as yourself. And we said OK.

Dr. Benjamin Spock said we shouldn't slap our children when they misbehave because their little personalities would be warped and we might damage their self-esteem. And we said, an expert should know what he's talking about, so we won't slap them anymore.

Then the education department said that teachers and headteachers had better not discipline our children when they misbehave. And the school governors, acting on government advice, said 'no member in this school had better touch a student when they misbehave because we don't want any bad publicity, and we don't want to be sued! And we accepted their reasoning.

Then someone said, 'Let's let our daughters have abortions if they want and they won't even have to tell their parents. ' And we said, that's a grand idea.

Then some of our top elected officials said it doesn't matter what we do in private as long as we do our jobs. And agreeing with them, we said it doesn't matter to me what anyone, including the President of the United States, does in private as long as I have a job and the economy is good.

And then someone said 'Let's print magazines with pictures of nude adults and call it wholesome down-to-earth appreciation of the humanform. And we said, we have no objection to that.

And someone else took that appreciation a step further and published pictures of nude children and then stepped further still by making them available on the internet. And we said, they're entitled to their free speech.

And the entertainment industry said, let's make TV shows and films that promote profanity, violence and illicit sex. And let's record music that encourages rape, drugs, murder, suicide, etc. And we said, it's just entertainment, it has no adverse effect and nobody takes it seriously anyway, so go right ahead.

Therefore, now we're asking ourselves why our children have no conscience; why they don't know right from wrong; and why it doesn't bother them to kill strangers, their class-mates and themselves.

Probably, if we think about it long and hard enough, we can figure it out. It probably has a great deal to do with .... we reap what we sow.

What we think, say, do; or not say, or not do, will affect the future for good or bad. Let us make sure that the seeds we sow are the 'good seeds' of God's kingdom, here on earth.

With all good wishes,
Your Friend and Rector,

Keith Wyer

The Rectory
Combe Martin

Dear Friends,

Recently I have put up in the porch, a little saying by St. John of the Cross, and a few people have asked for a copy. If I print it now for you in the Newsletter, you will have your own copy. Here it is:

If you are seeking after God, you may be sure of this: God is seeking you much more. He is the Lover, and you are his beloved. He has promised himself to you.

The longing in your soul is actually his doing. You may feel only the smallest desire for him. There may be no emotion about it at all. But the reason your desire rises at all is because he is passing very near to you. His holy beauty comes near you, like a spiritual scent, and it stirs your drowsing soul.

I will tell you again - it is not of your doing at all, this moment when your soul awakens. He creates in you the desire to find him and run after him - to follow wherever he leads you, and to press peacefully against his heart wherever he is.

These moments are also ordered by God, and are sent by him in his timing.

John of the Cross

You just might like to think about it during the summer months.

With all good wishes,
Your Friend and Rector,

Keith Wyer

The Rectory
Combe Martin
May 2000

Dear Friends,

During the last few months, I have been reading a book entitled 'The Wisdom of the Desert'. One of the pearls of wisdom was this short story:

A certain brother came to Abba Silvanus at Mount Sinai, and seeing the hermits at work he exclaimed:

"Why do you work for the bread that perisheth? Mary has chosen the best part, namely to sit at the feet of the Lord without working."

Then the abba said to his disciple Zachary:

"Give the brother a book and let him read, and put him in an empty cell."

At the ninth hour the brother who was reading began to look out to see if the abba was not going to call him to dinner, and sometime after the ninth hour he went to the abba and said:

"Did the brethren not eat today, Father?"

"Oh yes, certainly," replied the abba, "they just had dinner."

"Well," said the brother, "Why did you not call me?"

"You are a spiritual man," said the abba, "You don't need this food that perisheth. We have to work, but you have chosen the better part. You read all day, and can get along without food."

Hearing this the brother said: "Forgive me, Father."

And the abba said: "Martha is necessary to Mary, for it was because Martha worked that Mary was able to be praised."

Food for thought?

With all good wishes,
Your Friend and Rector,

Keith Wyer

The Rectory
Combe Martin

Dear Friends,

Springtime is one of nature's pointers to the resurrection.

A few years ago I heard a parable based upon an imaginary conversation of several nymphs. It went something like this:

One day a couple of water nymphs noticed that after quite a long time the older nymphs rose one by one from off the bottom of the pond up to the surface that marked the boundary of their world. The older nymphs just disappeared but their dead bodies dropped back down to the bottom of the pond.

"I wonder if there is life after death?" said one nymph.

"Of course not!" said another. "This is the only life there is, silly."

"I'm not so sure," said another "After all, there is light up there and there just might be another world waiting for us."

"I know," said the eldest, "I'm very old now and I might have to make the journey any moment now. I tell you what. When I get up there, and there is life, I'll come back and tell you."

"Great!" said the others. "That will settle it one way or the other."

The very next day, the eldest nymph felt drawn towards the surface. When he arrived at the there, he experienced a unique sensation and found himself out on the surface equipped with wings to fly away in the sun. He was just about to fly away when he noticed his former body sinking back down to the floor of the pond. "I had better go back and tell my friends that there is a wonderful world up here. But wait a minute. Why tell them? They will discover it for themselves quite naturally."

He flew off and his friends were convinced that there was no 'life after death'.

Good job Jesus came back, or we might be in the same boat!

With all good wishes,
Your Friend and Rector,

Keith Wyer

LETTER FROM THE RECTOR

The Rectory
Combe Martin

Dear Friends,

True Christian love is sometimes very difficult to find, but when we come across it, it can change our lives. I love the story about a little girl who was dying of a disease from which her eight-year-old brother had recovered some time before.

The doctor said to the boy, "Only a transfusion of your blood will save the life of your sister. Are you ready to give her your blood?"

The eyes of the boy widened in fear. He hesitated for a while, then finally said, "All right, doctor, I will do it."

An hour after the transfusion was completed, the boy asked the doctor, "Doctor, er, please, er, when do I die?"

It was only then that the doctor understood the momentary fear that had seized the boy - he had thought that in giving his blood, he was giving his life for his sister.

It was that kind of love that Jesus revealed when he did die on the cross for his brothers and sisters [i.e. you and me]. Makes you think, don't it?

With all good wishes.
Your Friend and Rector,

Keith Wyer

The Rectory
Combe Martin

Dear Friends,

Christmas time evokes many ideas and images. I always think back to when I was a child and the excitement of Christmas Eve and pretending to be asleep when 'Father Christmas' brought in the Christmas presents and tip-toed out of the bedroom, and, because it was far too early to be awake, looking at the different presents and trying to think what they could possibly be. Then the surprise of discovering what the paper was hiding; and the waves of love that flowed through the giving, and feeling of humility that people should spend so much on a gift for me.

The original Christmas was a time of excitement and expectations too, as the Jews looked for a Messiah. But what a surprise when he came!

Lord Jesus Christ,
you came to a stable
when men looked in a palace;
you were born in poverty
when we might have anticipated riches;
King of all the earth,
you were content to visit one nation.
From beginning to end you
upturned our human values
and held us in suspense.
Come to us, Lord Jesus.
Do not let us take you for granted
or pretend that we ever fully understand you.
Continue to surprise us
so that, kept alert, we are always ready
to receive you as Lord and to do you will.

Donald Hilton

 

Illustrated by: Paul Swailes

With Christmas Blessing for you and your family,
Your friend and Rector,

Keith Wyer